When I tell you black women zalieni junguu you don’t want to listen. Out here it is a jungle filled with chimpanzees. The way I fear being a statistics with these chimpanzees, when I see the first sign of trouble I am out bcz, I am never even serious about them to begin with. It’s all fun and games until you end up in a wheelchair or dead in a bath tub.
Anyway, Let’s break it down. So the guy was a married guy who dated the lady in question for years. He had a family back home and one weekend they visited and clothes were left. The lady went later and found the clothes. She caused a ruckus and the man ignores her and continues watching telly. She hits the TV and the guy and his cuzo throw her off the 2nd floor of Q apartment in Clay works Kasarani. Right now the two men have lost their jobs and are in jail awaiting charges for attempted murder. The lady is fighting for her life after internal bleeding in the brain and spinal injury. She’s paralysed from the waist down and can’t speak.
Ladies, I think by now you are realizing that there’s something going on with our blackies that ain’t normal. They are extremely misogynistic and cruel to women. So What can you as a woman do to protect yourself?
Don’t ever love a man more than you love money or a packet of Unga. If you want to fight with a man do it over the phone. Men particularly black men have extreme anger issues due to the subordinate position they hold in relation to other races of men. If you want to confront a man do it over the phone.
Don’t make a man your life or your reason for living. I can assure you 300% you will regret it. Let a man be a subsidiary in your life. Have your own life, even if you are married. The less focus you put on a man the less it hurts when he betrays you which is almost inevitable.
Don’t be giving to men, with men especially black ones, no good deed goes unpunished. You better waste your money going shopping than use it to bail a man out or pamper him. You will live to regret it.
Warembo take care of yourself. This is a man’s world. Protect yourself. Put yourself first. Know you are worthy of a life of dignity and respect by walking away from anything that is not adding value to your life. Avoid long relationships. If you want to be a mule in the plantation do it immediately. If you’re dating for fun don’t exceed 3 months before you end the relationship but make sure you make it look like it was the man who ended it before you end up dead coz men don’t take rejection very well. That way you will never get to see the ugly side of men. Which is also the dangerous side of men. Your life is precious don’t throw it away over a man. Dump his ass and move on with out missing a beat.
