i am not new to ktalk. I decided to open a new account because i am a popular guy here and would not want my friends to know that i have hit rock bottom. Paying bills has been very hard leave alone rent. Please talkers give me help on what i can do. i cant even think straight, my girlfriend left me and my landlord is almost kicking me out.
I was considering suicide but God has taken away those thoughts. please help out a brother guys. Any positive help or advice will be appreciated.
There is no shame in downgrading untill you get back on your feet…avoid throwing yourself a pitty party at all costs otherwise its the perfect way to fuck up your life.
@Deorro is this you?
Get a cheaper house and stop spending on entertainment and non basic stuff till you are back on your feet.
what jobs can i do to survive for now?
What did you use to do before you became broke? Kama ilikuwa employment try employing yourself. Kama hauna maringo become a hawker to survive as you think about your future. Cut down your expenses, live within your means.
what skills do you have?
You have psychological issues to start with, who told you that you are popular?
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i have a driving a license, i have done marketing and sales
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When I was in your situation many year ago (11yrs) ,I went back to my folks (it wasn’t easy),but when they received,embraced and encouraged me,my usual high spirit was restored.The two months I stayed with them were enough for both relaxation and peace of mind.While at it I also applied for jobs and I returned to the city when I got an offer at one of the leading Telco.It has never been the same again.
Currently I have very few friends and can’t trust a woman to commit coz of the experience I went through at that time.Thanks to akina @Meria Mata ,one of them offered me lift home.What I left behind I never cared to know what happened to it.
cheki Uber sometimes they look for drivers
Tuma application Naivas wanataka madereva only, you may get a chance
depression is real friends currently in and out of it…suicide is no option son hang in there…opening up is the start of recovery …
nipe link bro
How much is your rent? Which side of this city do you live?
What were you doing before? Did you lose a job etc etc? No shame
Focus on your strengths not weakness.
Did I hear you mention galfriend left you.
That’s nothing man.
Dust yourself and see how unaweza nukisha kitunguu tena.
I just got it from an insider, honestly I donno how its done but they advertised yesterday
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