In the african society, which this village is part of, gender based violence wasnt as demonised as it is now. It used to happen ooooooooool the fcukin time. Indeed my father, told me how my grandpa beat up my grandma when he was refusing my dad’s going to a step sister. My dad’s going led to him getting education, and later leading a better life than would have otherwise been. Related, the old times in the african sun saw very few divorces, Read, DISCIPLINE.
Women by their very nature are very chuchuchu. You have seen it here. Some are very foul mouthed, others hide nasty demeaning meaning under some concocted quasi-Anglo words. Heavens knows how many times i wished i could hit the shit outta them.
You see it in your houses. As you choose to keep quiuite she scales up her voice, decibel upon decibel, an IQ point down each time. If you walk away, she comes to you. And whats a man to do?
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Walking out and Staying out for a couple of nights. Either at a Hotel or better still,at her “single” best friends house. That will teach her!..... If that doesnt bring her to her senses,you can always shag her best friend or even make a pass at her sister.
All the above are when you still Love her and care to keep the relationship together.
The day you really feel the need to hit your woman is the Last day you should be with her.
There is Nothing Left there worth “Fighting” for.
I agree. I used to subscribe to the theory of being Alehandro , holding her tight or walking out when she starts to demonstrate her low IQ, but that only seemed to encourage her. 1 day she started the chuchuchu knowing her very well, i told her am tired i just need some rest, that seemed to have encouraged her, and trust me women have a way with irritating words, she can just say “the” in a way only a woman can and you feel like shooting yourself. This day she mentioned my mum, the slap she received has made her never to raise her voice ever since. If she has an issue she raises it up in a high IQ way sio chuchuchu mingi. I wished i had slapped her earlier, that way i would have avoided all those night vigils i spent in a bar all in the name of being alehandro!!!
i see you and your boy outchea still doin’ the whole “controversial” theme, huh?