So the manosphere as usual has managed to ruin a word that’s a perfectly lovely 
attribute that women NATURALLY have to drive their misogynistic patriarchal propaganda.
Recently, I apologized to a man who got trolled because I dragged his name to a particular forum and an elderly divorced misogynist was shocked that I can be ‘feminine’ . For being apologetic to a man I had wronged. I felt insulted. I now hate this word. I never thought I’d see the day when I’d hate to be called a feminine woman. You can call me a feminist,a feminazi and all other derogatory terms for feminist any day but please don’t call me a feminine woman. PLEASE. I can’t stand it . It used to be one of the best compliment you could pay me , not anymore. Anything the manosphere touches turns to a cancer causing pillar of salt. I’m highly considering just blocking their toxic content out of my existence so that I don’t have to deal with the bad satanic energy the manosphere has. I’ve managed to cut men out of most aspects of my life why not the manosphere and their puny BS ? Who knew being called feminine could be turned into a slur that connotes that you are a doormat to men. Essentially this term is now no different than a man calling you a prostitute. It’s how being called a female is like a man calling you a beach.
Yet, I can’t stand anything that connotes masculinity, on my person. Not watches. Not glasses. Not colours like grey. Not short hair. Nada. I don’t wear shoes that look like men’s shoes like loafers and brogues. Even my sneakers would look gay on a man. The only thing I own that has any relation to men is a unisex perfume called Hacivat and that’s because I am a sucker for chypre perfumes. I don’t even wear trousers. For years upto last year I didn’t even own a trouser, I bought some but picked the ones that a man couldn’t wear unless he was gay. For those rare events that would necessitate them. I have leggings but those are feminine naturally. I like the ones with sequins so again very feminine. My house is painted pink and lilac. You will have no doubt that it’s NOT a man’s house and no man lives there. I’m getting gym membership so that I can get 3 showers a day. Shower at lunch time. I have a box of bath and bodyworks and Victoria Secret body mists, on top of designer perfume and using Downy. Nothing about me is even remotely male. Nothing and I go out of my way to make sure of it.
It’s very disturbing when someone who has never been a woman a day in his life is now the one who is an expert on femininity. But in the manosphere circles it seems to be the norm for serial divorcees to be the ones giving hundreds of people marriage advice.
A man can never tell you what being a woman’s about anymore than an ant can tell you what it’s like to be a fish. Do you baby girl. Kwanza a black man doesn’t even know what being a man’s about he’s busy blindly following other races of men on the negative things but never on the positives. Let a white man challenge you because he’s born alpha not these bottom of the barrel monkeys who can’t even be men, they’re so subservient to men of all other races. I will gladly submit to a white man if he’s a decent human being who I’m married to. The Bible only talks of submitting to husbands not boyfriends and certainly not random men you meet on the internet calling themselves alfa mails. You can’t compete with men of other races so here you go trying to subjugate women so that you can feel better about your defeated masculinity.