The local gatheti highlighted some of the issues parents are facing with their ex-form 4 children. My case is terrible.
This boy finished last year, na ni material ya A, so sooner or later I know he will be taking his dream course- medicine. In the meantime, I bought him a movieshop. Though I didnt expect him to make serious money from it, I thought it would help him keep out of trouble. It has done exactly the opposite.
The place has become the meeting point for teenagers, esp girls. Mpaka wamama wa mtaa wanalalamika. Juzi, a neighbor stopped me to quarrel that my son is ferking her daughter. When I asked the boy, he denied even knowing the girl.
The other issue is this boy is extremely dirty. Ukimuona kwa mtaa he looks very neat, but jana I got into his room to check on him after he fell sick with some bacterial infection. God, that place is filthy. Sijui the last time he washed his bedsheets ama the floor. Mpaka iko na moulds. Have tried to talk to him about neatness in the past, kumbe have been playing guitar to a goat! Jeez, am just tired with him. Alafu ile attitude ako nayo ni kama ya shetani. Me i dont know what to do with him. I feel like giving him to someone.
Anyone with a similar predicament tutengeneze support group?
While CouchP was complaining wake ni msafi sana.
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The neighbor claimed mtoto ddfhkmād his/her daughter kwani ako na evidence? Ama alikuwa anawaona?
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Just stop worrying kijana ako sawa. He will mature with time
There is when the man of the house should step in ā¦The gluteus maximum has a nerve that connects it to the medula oblangata and when stimulated properly the boy will understand who is in chargeā¦
sounds like a normal teenager My room was also filthy until I found a snake next to the speaker cord that is when me and clutter divorced for good.
This is a normal teenager, he is also scoring with the estate damsels, couch p would love his to do this and be a little untidy.
Ingekua alcoholism its something else.
To avoid pregnancy, Just tell him if he ever makes an estate girl pregnant you will take him to your rural home, build him a mud house and give him a small piece of land from which they will fend for themselves and their young family. This was enough to make us cautious when we were his age.
comeon nani hakupita hii stage, ukim condemn sana ataget defensive do some silly shit na u end up na form four leaver mwenye anaishi kwa mamake na bibi yake best thing you can do ni advise coz belt ama slippers haita saidia hapa
Thats a perfectly normal boy. ata reform tuu especially the usafi part. Yesterday night I saw my neighbours girl in the CBD at 11:30pm. Drunk as a skunk an in company of two boys. nikajua hiyo ni combi. The only problem with today generation is that they were raised to know only their parents can discipline them. My little bro got some infection from dfhkm on Monday I had him soughted without the parents knowledge. Nilimpa msomo ya half an hour.
My kid bro the last born is the sameā¦ mzee hua anambeba kama mayai so kutandikwa au kunyimwa kukaziwa pesa and other things is out of the question with him. He a little clean lakini ukingia kwa room yake hutakosa chakula inaoza.
I was thinking the best, albeit non conventional solution, is to this is to allow him to bring girls into the room. That place itasafishwa.
Mine is turning 17 this year and his attitude began right after circumcision. My problem is how do I start to tell him about sex, pregnancy and stuff.
I donāt trust the teachers, pastors and the like.
I am at wits end in this. The boy does not quarrel or disagree with me but he simply does not follow advice. I think its a subtle way of telling me to shove my man to man talks that I have with him.