As a human being, you have many needs including emotional & sexual needs to take care of. You get a partner(s) to take care of these needs. Occasionally, you get someone who also wants a warm body & someone to talk to which works perfectly fine for you. However, most times you meet those who want genuine relationships. If you were totally honest about what exactly you want from them they would leave you. You can’t stand being alone so what do you do?
You treat them right, say whatever they want to hear, confess your undying love, take care of them and even talk about the future but deep down you know it’s all part of the game. They end up thinking the two of you are in a serious relationship when actually they are a mere okoa jahazi, a place holder and once they serve their purpose you will toss them aside and get someone new.
You go through the motions, meet their friends, family & relatives. Do everything to suggest you are in it for the long haul. However, once you get the kind of person you intend settle down with or they outlive their usefulness, you dump him/her and move on, leaving them severely heartbroken.
They cry, blame you for wasting their time & sometimes do foolish stuff like hurting themselves.
The most surprising thing is that you don’t ever feel guilty about it. You are a little sad to see them heartbroken because you clearly know they genuinely care about you but then in love & war there will always be casualties.
Have you ever been in such a situation yourself? If yes, angusha hekaya, if not go wank. Tumeanza kunyonya fombe waiting for football so hatutaki story za ujinga.
If possible keep hekaya as short as possible, pictures only would be better.
I agree. Ile kwanza you agree to meet parents and connect some of her relatives with a job. In your heart you know you don’t give a shit. Once you do things that suggest you are serious unapatiwa vitu without limit. The woman literary gives herself to you ufanyie venye unataka. But once you get enough you move on like nothing happened
So sad…:(…but you still trust and hope what they say is truly what they mean. though sometimes you can see the truth and still go on after all what do you have to lose
