Epiphany: The Single Mother & My Love for Her

This is a long read, those without balls can skip to the next thread.

“Let’s see where the black family at
We need each other, with bad tempers, we defeat each other
Single mothers, my heart’s bleeding for you
These coward men, that were beating on you (never me)
Let’s silence them, with a silencer
For the violence of relationships
Hold your head up, don’t take that shit, run away from it
I shoulda ran away myself, the amount of pain I was dealt
And I’m a man, my job is to help
Single parent home, came up, now the man is grown
Mom’s gone, pop’s here, wish God reversed the roles
(Sometimes) If I could’ve chose, subsidized housin’
Sometimes witnessin’ the most foulest things would arouse us
We became numb like pure 'caine on the tongue
To the pains from economical strains” - Til The War Is WonNas, Album: King’s Decease, 2020.

It’s 2021 and boys need to get their visions right to become men. I was the fucking pioneer of the RedPill before the potato-head’s Kenyalist become a thing among you fools. No need for that AFBB bullshit nor that hypergamy ish.
Alright let me get straight to why boys hate the SM in point form:
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[li]I deliberately used ‘boys’ instead of ‘men’. Being a man goes beyond the physical, it is psychological. A boy is always:[/li][LIST]
[li]Jealous and selfish – How dare she got a baby at a time I was on a dry-spell? She wants me for my resources.[/li][li]Giving a f@ck – about what people think of him and about all the things around him to the point where logical thought conflates the emotional.[/li][/ul]
[li]Everything is about sex to them and when they learn that a woman has a kid, they have no option but to really show what they really were thinking about – chasing the ‘precious-tight hole’. Of course to them the word ‘mother’ doesn’t mean a female being taking care of an infant; to them that word means a woman getting fucked, a man cumming hard and a kid coming out as a result. To them this kid is not like them when they were kids, this kid is not like any kid they might have in future, matter-a-fact to them this kid is nothing like their own envisioning of a ‘right-kid’.[/li][li]Short of vision and lacking purpose – Now look, most boys against SMs always say that they cannot raise another man’s seed. This is exactly how they see raising up a child as – you can only raise a child that’s your own. They forget that they live in society of men and women and not monkeys – very evident on how they talk about men being existing as either Alpha or Beta. I remember days back when I used to commute from a certain neighborhood in Eastlands Nairobi to Park Road primary using the KBS buses. I would get into a full packed bus and then some man or woman would offer me their lap to sit on. These people never knew me but they saw me as what I was, a kid, a little human being. [SIZE=3]What’s the use of calling yourself Alpha if the basis of it is uncivility?[/SIZE][/li][li]Raised by hate, yep, most kids from the 70s to date have been raised on some element of hate and narcissism and that’s why they see themselves as a cut above the rest. We reap what we sow and this is the result.[/li][/LIST]
Am I an apologist for SMs? No. What I am is man who believes human beings are just animals and they err in ways as part of learning. That alone is a reason to see a SM as a woman. Let us look closely at the psychology of a SM for a brief moment:

She has a kid and needs a man to help raise the kid. She subconsciously understands that a child needs both parents. She’s looking to survive and at this point she will fall into any man who to her seems fit regardless of his sinister motives.

She might be moody, have bad attitude and other disqualifying criteria but after it all consider this: behind all that there is a kid who calls her mummy. When as a man you express hate for SW, you are also projecting the hate onto the kid. I don’t know much but I sure as hell know that, hating someone who has done you no wrong is speediest criteria to qualifying one for Karma’s whooping.

She might be overly-aggressive, but what less do you expect from someone living in community dominated by men and she knows that despite what happens in her work-day, she still has a mouth to feed and love to show for her kid; with enough pressure to prove to the society that she can raise a kid right.

Am I saying that all SMs are of good character? No. But don’t just judge any woman you meet by the single fact that she has a kid. Yes yes, there are some who once they have delivered, they get to confuse motherhood with her pussy attaining corporate status. Pussy is now responsible for income revenues, expenses, turnovers, etc. Those, if you are man enough, you will identify after a meeting or two e.g. She doesn’t live with the kid, gets home late, kid is in a boarding school before attaining age 11, constantly asking for the ring, etc.

Supporting Evidence:
I know of families where the most dominant name in that house is a kid that came with the mother. I know of a lot of men who retired and the most love they receive is from a step-daughter/step-son and now the sad part, I know of people whose lives got wrecked by their biological kids are they have nothing to show but shame. Is this proof enough to convince a man that wifing up a SM ain’t all that bad? Yes it is.

We do not despise single moms but their behavior. They insist on disrespecting any man that comes along the way simply coz they aren’t the father of the first baby. And as such, since the shooter has learned to shoot without missing, then the bird has to master flying without perching. Mtoto akililia wembe, apewe shoka. In short, single moms got they and they themselves to blame for their misfortunes.

Until women learn and internalize that men have had it with this patronizing man shaming garbage, utaendelea kupigia mbuzi guitar

Bullshit thread… Why are you shaming men? Why cant you shame the women who spread their own legs? Why not shame them for not taking responsibilities in vetting their sperm donors?

Its is 2021, with the woke of equality, every gender should take responsibility… stop shaming men for not wanting anything to do with single mothers…

Always remember, women will always vet men according to their future (a man’s potential to provide) and as men, we have every obligation to vet and chastise their past.

My morals cant allow me to abandon my child. If push comes to shove, i will steal the kid and go with it if matters come to an ungrateful single mother

You will call men boys all you want, men who reject single mothers and used up women. When you are through insulting men, utanyamaza. And men will continue being men and continue rejecting rejects. Wale most dominant name bastards waendelee kuwa dominant huko kwa mama zao, men have no issue with that. Lakini wanaume hawatabeba mzigo hawataki. Hata uwaite mbwa au nini.

Wakati ulikuwa unajinyonga hukuwa unafikiria about the kids you have sired?

There is nothing good that can come out of a relationship with a single mother. From the get go, she already disrespects you and the same will slowly rub onto her brood pia waanze kukuona meffi in no time. Problem ni kwamba most men who get themselves in such a situation are blinded by “love” and unlimited sex to see the big picture. One place to pick up cues of her disrespect ni ile time anakuomba pesa. While trying to sound as polite as possible, the disdain in her voice, diction and demeanor is unmistakable to a kin observer.

I want to warn men who develop anything towards single mothers. One strategy single mothers use to ensnare you is by midwifing a relationship between you and their tois. As a normal and decent human being, you will naturally develop a sometimes unbreakable bond with the tois. I mean they are innocent beings caught between you and the single mother. Problems arise when the shitty aspects of the mother begin manifesting further down the road. If not careful, one runs the risk of being trapped like his counterparts in the plantation; you can’t leave coz of the tois you now share a lot with.

Tell us more elder

Tomba mara mbili tatu na utoe jam wengine pia wafanye boarding. Unajua line kawaida huwa ndefu more so kama single mother ako na matako. Hakuna haja ya kushikilia line.

Sijibizani na fossils. Muujingaa

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