Easy to approach a woman but difficult to chat her up

General
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Elders, are there some elders here who find it so easy to approach a woman no matter how beaitiful or hot. In any situation be it in a mall, a club, team building, kwa matatu, a meeting or function, engage in a spicy conversation laughters here and there and even take phone number. But find it hard talking to her later on? Yaani you are unable to chat there is no content after hey…hey the chat fades silence.
So i my case i can approach a woman yes, talk talk for so long, one might think tunajuana. Afterwards we exchange contacts, i text she responds quite well lakini story hakuna even over the phone call story hakuna.
This trend has been on for so long and i have lost lots of potential lays.
Am just wondering is this normal or something. What should i do is there any elder with similar characteristics

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Shida za kuzoea Malaya.

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Use your phone to set up dates/meet ups

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if she is genuinely interested she will also push for the conversation to continue…right now kuna wawili I am vybing after escaping the planteshen…I am not one to talk much on phone lakini iko mmoja anavuruta story for even one hour jioni before tulale…anataka tu kubonga. Nilikuta izo vitu sato very nice ass

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You’re in big shiet

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Ask yourself what is it you want from her, let it motivate you kama ni kula vitu tell her to come over. Akiringa tafuta mwingine

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Both of you have to be in it

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Any childhood trauma? Were you shamed by women when you were young?

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Now this is exactly what am asking. That part where “anavuruta stort for one hour” how now

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I get you bro mimi huwa blank kwa text but phone call na face to face niko poa. I only talk to my bitches via phone call only time i use text is to set up a data.

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I want you to see this situation: (chat)
Me: hey
Her: hey you mambo
Me: niko poa. Ulifika home poa
Her: yeah
Me: (almost typing hio ni poa)

…now what do i tell her. What can we talk about… She sees am typing. I’ve been typing for so long mi sina story. I end up saying - alright. Na chat inaishia hapo
You see am looking for an entry point to invite her over to my place because i can’t just bring the subject from the skies it’ll sound so rude halafu nichome

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I was the laughing stock among kids my age in the area i was brought up

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Not really, tell her you want her. Tell her you want to see her, akifika tell her you are interested in her. That’s is enough. Sasa ajikarange na mafuta yake. If she says yes, sawa, if she says no sawa. Unasonga mbele. Find another girl and do the same.

You don’t have to say a lot, ataona wewe ni noise maker, na haina shida if she sees you as a man of few words.

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Me: Nishakumiss tayari. You know we could make good lovers. Do this, what if we met and got to hangout on Sato. If you are in, I am in too.

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You: nice. That was fun. Let’s do it again.

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Ni kama simu yako iko na issue, patia hio jangili amecomment wakwanza atakusort.

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Have some default questions ready.

  1. What interesting stuff have ypu been upto today?
  2. How do good of a kisser are you on a scale of 1_10
  3. Whats the most sensitive part pf your body
  4. What do u do for fun?
    5.etc etc
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Have some default questions ready.

  1. What interesting stuff have ypu been upto today?
  2. How do good of a kisser are you on a scale of 1_10
  3. Whats the most sensitive part pf your body
  4. What do u do for fun?
    5.etc etc
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Introverts tuko na shida:D
But if she’s into you the convo will keep trickling on pole pole tu. Try attacking her from her areas of interest but don’t be all nice, tusi yeye kiasi hapa na pale. Be sarcastic, be the one that she smiles when she thinks of, nobody likes a boring guy.

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Wanaume tunakulwa kichwa tukisaka pesa wewe unashindwa kubongesha madem shenzi sana:D