As Christians we usually run to men and women of God when we have problems we can not resolve. Genuine pastor’s can help us a great deal but pastor’s can also take advantage of the problem to extort money from you or sex. Others give you a wrong advice such as persevering abuse.
Once upon a time a ‘pastor’ who is very popular nowadays whom I had a chance encounter with through a lady who is a woman rep now told me that if a woman comes to him to complain about her husband, the only way he can help her is to sleep with her. Also when I was younger my roommate was suicidal, bcz her bf who was a CU chairman had left her for a fresher, as friends we went to many great men of God to help her but none helped. It’s only when we gave up on pastors and decided to jointly pray for her is when the spirit of death and depression left her. So from those experiences I rarely tell pastor’s my problems. I just go to a prayer mountain and spend time in prayer and fasting and God answers my prayers. That’s my position. Although there are genuinely helpful pastor’s. I have known a few and even asked them for prayer but very rarely.
Swali ni did Pastor Eneche of Dunamis church know that Osinachi was in a violent marriage and if so why did he not take any action.