This barbaric!
Discipline ni muhimu
But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them [lightly].4 But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allāh is ever Exalted and Grand.
Remember gents! They pick those men
Very sad, mzee always told me “mwanamke hapigwi, ukishindwa kukaa naye mrudishe kwao na heshma”…only low IQ bonobos do this, yani mpaka ana mtoto msichana hapo akiangalia tu! The boy might replicate the same on his sister, female classmates or wife in future. Dude even poured hot milk in her face, no wonder @TrumanCapote calls black men chimps.
Track: Hesabu Gharama (mwanamke akiwa mang’aa rudisha kwao)
Artist: Francis Danger Kavuu
Group: Kangundo Dangerous Boys
from way back in the days.
Naona elders wakijifanya wangwana.. kuna mabibi wasipopigwa hivi wanaulizanga bwana zao.. kama wao ni wanaume kamili.
Unapata to her.. that’s how a man should act.
Wanawake ni funny creatures.
I had this mentality before but it never worked. Women are devils. If you dont hit them watakuua na stress. Mimi nilimgonga akaamua na yeye tupigane, nilimrudisha kwao apumzike kwanza.
Bad boy meets bad girl. Results.
GBV huwa ngumu kuelewa she’ll still stay,he will promise not to discipline again then cycle goes on for a possible lifetime.
Nyumba inawekwa CCTV ni ishara ya unsafe space.
Hii ni kichwa ngumu.
No man can hit a woman that way
I can give her a shoulder to lie on 
Nitawaambia tena, she’d rather die in that house bora mumewe asioe mwingine. Atakuambia wametoana mbali and she’s sacrificed a lot.
Elders nyinyi hamjui wanawake vizuri. You think ni uzuri pekee wanataka.. they want both bora ahanyi… [watu funny sana, na hata kama anahanya.. yeye awe first choice]. She’ll risk it all.
Wewe baki hapo na mapenzi ya kijinga… atakugeuzia akikuona mnyonge.
The guy was mostly gesturing and pointing, huyu ameshakimbilia FIDA ya twitter.
But you can discipline her in many different ways - reducing the amount you give her on regular basis ama budget ya nyumba, leo sema hakuna pesa utatumia mamake next month ama ile pesa ya trip brother yake amekua akiomba, no occasional dates until further notice… etc.
Also, kuna madem wengine haitafika to the point that you are laying your hands on her. Perhaps, a bit of screening to separate those with rogue behaviors from your potential wife would really help. It won’t though if you are just a violent person.
Hii ujinga ya kujifanya wangwana nilikua naiona r/kenya. Maghasia pretentious sana. Nikama hio upuzi imefika kijiji. Piga yeye slap awache ujinga. Hizo vidole zimepointiwa hapo ni nyingi zinaonyesha amezoea
You can discipline your wife or kid without turning into a barbarian.
Plus you avoid unnecessary dramas in your house.
Ever met a luo lady
Those babies followed their mother na bado tunaulizana hapa mbona wazee wanawachwa wakufe pekee yao ocha.
… wewe wacha bibi mkorofi azabwe makofi 
Violence muhimu