It’s draining a lot of times. Being surrounded by women, 70% of the time, they break into mundane and pointless conversation when you’re having a good time being quiet.
Is it a compulsion? Obsession? Both or just nature?
Cravers of attention. No different from you.
True. Most times they’re just retelling some nonsensical story you’ve heard before. And even if you do everything in your power to show you’re not interested in the conversation, they’ll keep talking anyway.
Ever tried indifference and or sarcasm?
It’s their nature so you can’t blame them for the same reason you can’t blame a baby for crying. Personally I prefer chiqs who speak to those who don’t.
Because they have to be accepted by society,they have to talk a lot. They have to speak lest they remain lonely. One thing that scares a woman is being lonely. During our cage years, barren women were considered useless and were never provided for, were discarded into the forest and would die alone, this instinct still remains in a woman to date. That’s why as a man they will always shame you that you will die alone, but this didn’t affect men in the cage years as men could be used for different purpose if one was barren i.e sold as a slave…
A woman must speak more than 10000 words every day. It’s the way they are programmed, so they will talk or discuss the most mundane of topics to achieve the threshold.
Just like a man has to expend physical energy by doing manual work or working out in the gym, a woman has to keep talking the whole day just to be okay. It’s the design of nature and there’s nothing you can do about it.
Oh, you are alive! 
Don’t start…
Hehe, you don’t have a talking obsession. Now we know you’re not a woman.
Nishawazoea. If you adopt stoicism and indifference it won’t even bother you at all. Many times you’ll be too busy within yourself that you won’t even be aware they exist in the same room. They are weird though, they will talk about Jemo ule donda wa ummoiner for the entire day.
just ignore them na ukuwe na headphones
Walk away from the conversation
They’re doing it for themselves, your interest is irrelevant. Btw that’s why they live longer coz after all that talk 5kgs of stress is offloaded. You your stress is still in you and all you can do is suppress it with alcohol.
Where is this where women were provided for? During colonialism they worked in mzungu shambas and lived in concentration camps. African culture viewed barren women as wives to the gods and they would just marry another wife. Go to archives and study your history. Achana na misogynist propaganda used to make people rich out of insecure men.
I once traveled next to a man for several hours. Any long trips I go for I like relaxing and reading or listening to audio books. I have never sat next to a man who didn’t want to talk. I’ve tried every trick, to be standoffish, a man can talk 8 hrs straight about himself. It’s like they have noone to confide in, now they are offloading stress on strangers. So nowadays I make sure I get a seat next to a woman. Taxi drivers are the worst. In 30 minutes trip you will have been told alot. Even when I used to use public transport I’m having headphones and a book and a man is still trying to talk to me, which book is this you are reading. It’s just that I don’t like being rude but wanaume are very entitled. Clearly if I have headphones and a book, I ain’t interested in anything you have to say.
Nowadays can one be lonely with all the distractions available? Then you have to go to work and be around people most of the time? How would you be lonely?
The worst busy bodies and gossipers ever are men. Personally I don’t care for gossip bcz I’m kind of a narcissist, so if I meet with you I am really interested in what is going on in your life or other people’s lives. So most men interrogate you then when they realize that you are not forthcoming with information, they start telling you about themselves or gossiping about someone else in the hope that you will reciprocate, so they can get fodder for gossip. You don’t. You let them talk, talk, talk until they are done and when they are now looking at you to talk, you excuse yourself and say you gotta go. The look of disappointment on their faces is priceless.
What about lunje men? Busy body does not begin to describe them. Gossip. I usually do not understand why people are so interested in the lives of others when your own is enough. People think I’m standoffish actually I’m just obsessed about myself so I really don’t have energy to concentrate on people’s lives. Even at barbershop too much gossip.
Si hapo juu umesema women talk to offload stress.
What you talking about?? But I got em titties!!!
Today I’ll be polite to you, but don’t provoke me like that again, or I’ll demand a 4K image of them twin peaks