Wagwana, there is a nagging feeling that keeps telling me to do DNA for my 2 daughters. Huyu wa pili ananikaa sana. Sura ni yangu kabisa ata kama kuna parts za mamake. Lakini wa kwanza jo! Can’t relate all this time. Tabia ni zangu but that can be acquired. I have tried putting this under the carpet na kujiconvince ati macho ni yangu bla bla lakini my heart has never been at peace.
Swala nyeti ni nikifanya DNA nipate mmoja si wangu na vile nawapenda si nitanyonga mtu! All those bills for all these years!
pesa tu ndio unalia? Shouldn’t you be lamenting what will die inside you whichever way the DNA goes?
Fanya hio test to put your mind at rest. But also realize ata kama sio yako, the law still forces you to take care of her. So bado hizo pesa utaendelea kutumia.
Hafugiki, fanya DNA kunguru apuruke
Upusu, mimi ukijaribu kuniForce kuelea toto la njangiri ingine nakuObado kiRoho safi
hii kitu unafanya mtoi akiwa mdogo kabisa kabla hamjazoeana
Ni Upuss tupu but the law is the law… unless you can somehow dodge the law kwasababu if you wife has some means she can frustrate you sana using the law
Mama yao ni kunguru? Tuanzie hapo
Waah!! I pray and hope she is yours… otherwise it will be fucked up situation.
Halafu ufanye hio DNA…itokee that the chances are 99.9% that the kid is yours only that the recessive genes za guka ya cucu yako ule alioa cousin yake ndo zimetokelesea… Utalijua jiji kakabraza
fanya DNA chini ya maji…no one nows but kijiji
Mama yao sio kunguru (to my limited knowledge) lakini si unaelewa mwanaume huoa juu ya mimba? Inaweza kuwa aliruka mwingine akanibandika…
Hakuna vile nitalea mtoto sio wangu as much as I LOVE MY DAUGHTERS.
it is an honest endeavor to want to know the paternity of your progeny. there is nothing wrong in wanting to know whether their mother took advantage of you. knowing and taking care of the kid are two completely different things. i will comfortably take care of a kid that is not mine if i love the mother and there were no lies involved.
Fanya DNA for your peace of mind…but remember, in case mmoja wao ama wote sio wako, you are the only dad they know…Let that marinate.
You may be able to get away with it if you are not in formal employment and you have no assets in your name but kama uko formal employment, my friend, hio salo hautakua unaona the whole thing. Employer ataabiwa akate na kupea dame. The law is an ass sometimes but its better than no laws.
But all this may be speculation. Fanya hio test leta results hapa kijiji.
Enough said…you are thicker than uji.
This is the thing. No lies involved. I also would not mind raising a kid who isnt mine. But the key thing is the circumstances that led you to raising the kid.
If your wife cheated on you and brought a kid into the family and cheated you that its yours, I would not raise that kid. On the other hand, if she already had a kid, or even if you decide to adopt a kid later, thats ok with me.
hio kitu hufanywa mtoi akiwa mdogo but ukipata wote si wako mchuje nao , ukipata mmoja ni wako chuja bibi but take custody of both
DNA testing centres are the next big thing,
Random Question:
How would you acquire the sample without the mother knowing, or the child telling the mother?