OK. So I am in the group who stigmatize divorced men. I can’t date or marry divorcee bcz my faith doesn’t allow it. Anyway, how do you take up with a man who another woman has been defeated to stay even in spite of them having kids together? Which magic will you work? Life is short I don’t date single fathers and divorcees. I may consider single dad who is widowed with grown and independent kids but that’s the only concession I am willing to make. Bure singo, singo till I die. No time for also brokeasses. Kama huna kakitu, you will not come to be a parasite on me. Jitegemee Kim wanaume, mimi sio red cross ama IMF. My coins are for helping orphans and widows as Bible says na relatives. If you are not in the two categories, do not disturb me police. I don’t got time and energy for that crap. No romance without finance.
BTW I’ve noticed even at work that people respect single child free women more than divorcees or single mothers. I’m not into that but guys let’s avoid messing around with wrong people to avoid stigma.
I can’t remember what Catholic position was for a man who gets a wife who commits adultery. Does he stay in the dead marriage so that he can earn your respect? You are probably misinterpreting your faith.
Not just me most churches will not we’d you if you are a divorcee regardless of the circumstances. Including insanity or incarceration. You said till death. Not till adultery, so you can not remarry until the person is dead. I know CITAM and several other churches can not wed you if you are a divorcee. Catholic I don’t know. I will find out.
Death, Adultery, Abuse are valid reasons to divorce. I am not the churchie type anyway so I dont really go for their approvals and opinions of me to live my life.