I have been wondering about believers in bad marriages or who were duped. Did they really consult God. From personal experience if I feel unsteady about someone I pray and God reveals. Sometimes it’s the person who will even open up only to regret it much later. So sometimes I wonder when you hear a whole pastor saying that he was duped. How can you lead a congregation if you can’t discern the woman who you are about to marry is a fraud.
discernment can never help if you are not open to make it work. the thing with you is you are so intent to find the wrong in someone that you will always find it. i could be the best man on earth, but if you want to find my faults as bad as you do you will not miss them.
Men should watch and be guided by the Holy Spirit.Without it all we have is the flesh…And all decisions made because of the desires of the flesh are worldly and all lead to disaster.
Men have proven to be weak in the presence of women.Adam,David,Solomon,Samson.Only through the power of Holy Spirit can man discern and overcome such.
For such a case…most men end up following their own will instead of the will of YHWH…But when things get out of hand…we want to put the blame on YHWH.YHWH ALWAYS affirms marriages whose foundations are based on sound bibilical doctrine and His will.