A Kenyan man in New Jersey shoots his wife then later shoots himself leaving their three children without parents.
I remember in 2010 there was a Kenyan in Minnesota who murdered his wife and strangled two of his kids to death. There are many such cases but what I’ve noted is that the wives are usually nurses or CNAs. The husbands usually struggle to pay for their nursing school but once they get the license and start practising, the devil in them is unleashed. It seems pia nurses hawafugiki.
There was one guy from Murang’a that owned a barbecue place and grill in the U.S. Shot and killed his mother in law then killed himself several years back.
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Most of these are related to cheating and divorce.How come you will never hear murder suicides where the guy kills his father in law, brother,father etc.The court system will drive a person insane in case of divorce.The guy wants revenge for what the woman wants to do to him and since he will serve a long sentence he also takes his life.Of course i don’t condone such its cowardly.But when i wrote on a previous post the consequences of post modern feminism and the male in western countries someone said my observation was rubbish
Huyo ni kama alikuwa anaishi na mother-in-law. That’s why kukaa mbali na marela wa bibi ni muhimu, they can drive you up the wall in your own house.
Generally I find the ladies who love and adore Oprah and other feminist celebs as untouchables when comes to marriage considerations. Funny because they make great friends and workmates.
A wife should be flexible enough to be led by the husband. A wise man can tell if she is the type to be a good wife just by talking to her.
Gentlemen ,listen to yourselves. A man has killed himself and the mother of his kids, you are having a party to blame the deceased woman. Is there really any excuse to do something like this? You can see from your reasoning how sick this society has become. Nobody wants to attribute personal responsibility to a man. Ive been reading all kinds of insane things men are doing and yet yall cant see the man as having any problem. I read of a man in Kenya who broke a baby’s 4 limbs because he was angry with the child’s mother. As in the violence is getting more and more atrocious. Hata kama ni stress is there ANY excuse to do this to a child? The anger management in our men is the issue because anger shouldnt make you kill yourself and your kids mom then your kids are taken into foster care to be abused . We have become a very sick society especially our men. Our grandads had more stress raising 10 kids a piece and living in ghettos,some in Maumau nowadays men are just too weak, theyre loose canons anything small can set them off, they kill their parents, their wives their kids. Its terrible. Ukisikia mtu amekushinda just leave. Nobody needs to die.
@KaBuda has enough experience on diaspora relationships. Kunaendanga aje diaspora?
True.
The problem in these situation arises from the wives despising their husbands when they get the high paying jobs. Unaleta mwanamke, unamtengenezea makaratasi, unamsomesha through nursing school which is expensive then akianza kuingiza $35/hour anaona huko ligi yake anaanza madharau. Like this New Jersey guy operated a laundry mat to earn a living, I’m sure the wife despised him for that.
Majuu, if you have kids under 16 years, your mum or MIL being around is a huge plus. Why ? Paying for day care is expensive banaa.
In most cases when your wife is about to deliver, una organize visit anakuja ku baby sit.
If you have a female relative in Kenya, coming to States, namunaskia the family hosting her have small kid(s), know that she’s coming to bady sit.
Huyo atakaa kwa nyumba hadi skier wazimu.
The biggest Casualities of heartbreaks in the US, are men who believe in going back home to get wife’s.
Mimi marela wa Bibi wanajua sitambui upuss visit two three days en pack en Go I married their daughter not them u ave to be strict otherwise watakukalia
Maisha ya majuu si mchezo bana.
Cc @Purple ona hizi story za imports
The other is couples who go via greencard. Greencard ni harusi kenya, matanga Marekani.
A lady I know alienda juzi na her son, her husband is supposed to join her in August.
Well put ,apana tambua
Huyo husband atajiju unless akubali kukaliwa.
wife aliwai greencard yake na mtoi pekee
Sio mchezo you’re right but there are many successful diaspora marriages, only the bad cases make news. Pia wewe I guess take caution ukiwa diaspora ya kibera. 
That Green Card lottery proved to be a curse to many a marriages for couples that moved here. Although there is an exception for some that are making it work.
The first 2-3 years majuu are difficult for any immigrant.
Mambo na fare na malogistic zingine kibao.