Kuna nugu niliokolea last year na doo 1500 amekataa kunilipa. At the time of helping him msee alikuwa analia shida na njaa nikamrushia kakitu. Ilikuwa last year June before nifutwe kazi. He promised to pay in a month’s time. 10 months later he hasnt paid and doesnt look like he will pay. Akionionanga ni kuhepa. Ironically hakosi pesa ya keg na jaba lakini pesa yangu ndo mahali anadraw the line. I was to take his phone lakini anatumia kaduda yenye amefunga na blada. Alinyanganywa smartphone yake juu alishindwa kulipa deni ya duka. Thats when I came to find out yeye ni mtu wa madeni. Whats the best way to approach this? Should I just cut my losses and move on? Nimesota ile mbaya kabisa na kazi haipatikani and friends who I helped when I had a job wamechorea story zangu.
Just move on. The principal of lending to friends and family is this: Only lend money if you’re okay with the possibility of not getting it back.
ongezanisha io story ya deni, io friends ulisaidia na sasa ivi hawakujali, yote iwe one big lesson, na ikuguide vile uta relate na watu siku za usoni, maneno yako ikianza kuwa mzuri.
io 1500 sahau
Lesson learnt. Asanti sana. Let me cut my losses and move on.
Just move on. Na hio iwe funzo usikopa mtu pesa ata your own mother or sibling.
Hio pesa alitumia kwa raha zake kubuy keg na jaba. Mimi singempa imagine hio ni shoti ngapi calabash
I always tell folks that mwanaume ulizaliwa pekee yako na utakufa pekee yako wanaona ni kama niko jaba. Ona sasa
Makosa ulifanya ni kukopesha pesa utaskia uchungu isiporudishwa.
You need to just move on, but there is something you can do to help you move on. Find the guy and approach him very very peacefully, almost like you came to forgive the 1.5k debt. Then out of the blue when he is offgard you floor him by bandikaring him a kimatifa slap. Then you go, it feels much better and your “moving on” goes very smoothly.
Inaniuma sana juu ni msee nilisaidia kwa uzuri and he came to me with sob stories ati vile amekuwa njaa siku tatu na kuna vile hajafanikiwa kupata kazi.
Ni Sawa, hio pesa hairudi ihesabu kwa bill ya pombe na umaraya…wakati mwanamme amefikia Hali ya Mac Muga ndo akili hufunguka.
Hiyo ni pesa kidogo sana kufuata kama hataki kulipa. It’s not worth your time, energy and resources. Just cut your losses and move on. Ile doo unafaa kufuata ni kuanzia 10k kwenda juu
Relax. Pia yeye ako njaa tu kama wewe. Whats your academic background nini unaeza du? Skills zako ni zipi? Hufai kulia kusota ukiwa na skills na a degree
A degree.. translates to…
you have something you can offer to the society.
Ni nini hio hasa? Lipisha then.
Jitolee funza watoto tution hata kama ni mia tatu ama tano per student. Uki weza chukua room ya thao tatu hapo 26. Weka viti na meza.. ji market. Hii holiday isipotee
I seen a nigger get shot for less.
We are talking about humans, not pokots.
