Death of Masculinity?

Ukipata mtoto wako mvulana akipaka cutex na kubeba purse ya mamake wewe kama Bukusu ama Mnandi utafanya nini? Wanaume tugutuke. We focus so much on girl child tanasahau kulea wavulana wa nguvu kimwili na kiroho. Men who can lead, hapana hii p*ssyclat maneno.

I see everywhere that men should be allowed to cry. Men should be strong and not cry, they should be able to deal with problems head on. Mental illness na depression pia we need to be tough na kupambana mayo kama wanaume.

Hawa wazungu bana. This is how we are treading.

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Your understanding of mental illness and depression is really wanting. Yes as a man you will need to be brave enough to face your problems but if you feel seriously depressed, don’t be ashamed to seek professional help guys.

Kama wewe ni mzazi shughulika na watoto wako, wa wenyewe huwezani nao. Wako wakikushinda, pole sana…

I wrote it that way intentionally because the first assumption is a man dealing with mental issues should be quiet, as you have clearly shown.
Seeking help is the most important thing to do.

Hii thread ni ya watu werevu pekee…sijui unafanya nini hapa

@kah tony how old is your first born child? Sio kwa ubaya ‘daddie’…

First born ako zero years old.

Oh! Nilidhania ni ya wazazi. Wacha nijipe shughli…

:D:D utafika tu…kaza mwendo…

Thank you…

It’s for parents to be :smiley:

Enyewe I get your points @123tokambio @It’s Le Scumbag

I have read the tweets by the dad . No one likes to see their kids bullied but I think he went overboard(especially when he decided to blame other parents) .
I don’t see how telling his child to apply a brighter shade of nail polish will win the war! Jesus ! What the fuck is he smoking?

Dunia hairuhusu mwanaume kuwa mjinga. Atakula matope tu akionaga. Nature dont give a fak for gender studies and gender equality mbusit. That is like dreaming you jumped off a building and flew. Halafu kesho yake unajump kutoka 10th floor ati ndio uruke. Utakufa.

:smiley: so I’ve been told…nikatoka mbio…

You know after my son busted my tv jana I was angry but baadaye I asked myself " he threw a toy to bust the tv,… that’s masculinity right there . He will never be bullied easily without hitting back"
When older boys play kwa shule soccer , he prefers to challenge them than boys of his age. Huyu hata kuwa kijana wasiwasi( ama kombokombo)

Hapo you’re lost my friend. Kuna kitu inaitwa usawaziko. If you fail to regulate his cojones or is it his masculinity, utakuja pigwa na huyo kijana. That’s a hot prospect for a bully right there. Ama unafikiria at his age if you continue encouraging him on his rage kuna mahali atabadilikia when he turns teen? :smiley: La haula!..

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Abba that version of macho masculinity will not cut it in the 21st century. I fear he will be eaten for lunch by feminazis at the workplace. Which men are going to survive the onslaught? Gay guys, because no woman will be in fear of sexual harassment and their feminish traits augur well with ladies. Where I work, we recently hired a gay guy and he’s fast becoming a charmer with the ladies because he’s in touch with his emotions. Companies want to hire people who are “touchy feely” with their clients. They don’t need muscle or brain power because the age of AI is here. What distinguishes us from robots are emotions, something that comes naturally with females (and gay guys).