Or get an equally well to do woman. At least abroad, men and women both work and earn so it’s not really hypergamy when it comes down to it.
Poverty is what makes dating in Kenya hard. All the girls are looking for a way out of their godforsaken lives so they resort to wababaz. If you’re not financially stable, your rich age mates will be dating your daughters. That’s one fucked up society.
That’s why I can never get a woman from Kenya. The dynamics there mean she has been with a dozen wababaz. At least uku USA ata Kama she has some sort of body count I know it is with other young guys like myself.
True…my wife and i have same level of education and pay grade…difference tu ni mimi hua na side hustles…siwezi oa mtu nianze kulea extended family yake
Kwa sahii as a Kenyan man in Kenya the closest i can come to dating is a nurse who is focused on going majuu. At least hapo naweza pata easy leeway . The rest is just dealing with liabilities.
I think this is what has saved me nikiwa in relationships. It’s girls from relatively well off families so ata hao ndio wananipeleka dates more than I take them
Hio ni back in campus days. But dem wa USIU ama Strathmore ni almost likely utapata mwenye si broke. Multimedia pia si mbaya. Daystar si broke but can ask for favours here and there.
Enda tu coffee date ya kwanza, maybe karura ama cocktails date ya pili. Wako hapo for vibes so hawatamind. Date ya tatu sleepover. Date ya nne ni yeye anakuambia anakupeleka out
Kuna kienyeji Fulani napigwa through pass youtman amekataa kuingia planteshen. Huyo kienyeji ako Hadi na motkaaa. Mimi ndio sofara lakini in 2 years my investment will break even. Kamesomaaa banae