Manze nimetoka first date with a certain chiq…talk of the complete package. She’s kind of the missing piece of my jigsaw puzzle…yaani nafeel she complements me kabisa. First thing ni maturity, having sensible talks n stuff, mrembo is understanding and since she’s from a family iko well-off…hana tamaa ya hizi vanities kama sisi wa kutoka ghetto. Dem ako very humble despite being in a very top profession…She’s actually made me reconsider the sabbatical I’d taken with women. Yaani…she even got me thinking of settling down n starting a family…am deluded but I say this in the most serious sense. Hapa hadi nimefeel souls zetu zikibond nikaamini ile theory ya @Purr_27 ya soul ties. Though hata bado hatujaanza kufikiria sex. The problem is this lady is in her late 20s and am in the middle…but personally most of my friends are older than me. I always think I have an old soul (maybe I lived twice). So am wondering can anything serious happen between us given the age gap? First am sure nikaamua to seriously date her najua ntapata upinzani mkali kutoka kwa wazazi. Am so confused right now…what are your opinions regarding marrying someone slightly older than you? gap of about 5 years? Can it really blossom? Wazito hapa mnisadie na mawaidha.
Don’t rush to conclude.She may just be having a soft spot for you coz u look miserable.Just look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, Am I worth all this attention!!!
wewe hujaona thread watu wakilalamika wamefuatilia dame miaka 2, 4, 6 na hawakupata any! halafu unakuja hapa na mastori ya “full package” na “soul bonding” ?
:mad::mad:
Weka picha kwanza
ladies let you see what they want to showcase…may be she is a pychopath…no one has the whole package…ata wewe first date ujichocha unavutia a lady a chair kitu hufanyagi in real life…
get to know her met her friends vitu kama izo
kuna boy leo ame comment alikatia dame KFC dame akamshow yeye ni wa ku uza kinyamo kama anataka aseme 
may be pia yeye ni seller 
FIRST DATES MEAN FUCKALL…SHE’S PROBABLY GETTING FUCKED LIKE A WHORE TONIGHT AND YOU ARE HERE ACTING LIKE A FAG WITH AN ITCHING ASS.
:D:D:D:D
She is NIS…She has been assigned to you…Anataka kujua mbona hukumaliza shule
Wewe bado uko na excitement ya the first date… Everybody does coz we are humans, story ya ndoa jiulize after a year of dating
ACTING LIKE A FAG WITH AN ITCHING ASS
bro ata kama u had a bad day dont take it out on this young blood…
take it easy
may boy ni first date yake
na ukiona akina @Lola na @Purr_27 siutaenda kuwithdraw NSSF na NHIF upeleke kwao
Jst take it pole pole…
Get to know her more. This is just your first date - don’t get too excited. Clearly she knows how to spruce everything up for the first date, we ladies do that. We literally practice how to behave during our first dates. We google stuff, we ask friends, hell…even our exes!..just not to repeat the same mistakes. She’ll ace it of course. Question is; Will she maintain consistency all through? Will she keep being this ‘perfect’ during the 2nd, 3rd or even 4th date? Time is always the best time. Give this time. We’ll wait for your success story in two months time. All the best. 
mawaidha!1st hatumjui 2nd hatukujui enda mjuane alafu ukuje after 3 months probation
Dude is just smitten nothing else
Dude is just smitten
hiyo ni dry spell inaongea
Wazi TLS…mi uheshimu mawaidha yako hapa…acha nijipee time naye kwanza. Ubaya ni ako ile phase ya kusettle down so juu siwezi taka kumpotezea wakati, imebidi nikam kwa kamati.
Maybe 1 or 2 years but 5 years ni mob sana.It’s a psychological thing and with time she might start looking at you like a small brother. Trust me though there are exceptions.
My mum was older than my father by 6 years or there about.
May work or may not age difference is negligible.
Hehe…hii ni matusi but haijibandiki. My first serious girlfriend was 23 nikiwa 19. It comes naturally, so I’ll laugh at your suggestion. Thanks though.