Side hens please avoid marriage. You are replacing a punda wife, you go be the new slave. Please take what you are getting and leave that man with his slave. These men don’t respect marriage. After all this drama and kuvumilia he still left. For his mistress. After the first public humiliation. Wtf man?!!! What a way to start the holidays. Pole mum. These are men for you. Chukua slices of whatever you want out of him and keep it moving. You will regret this marriage business in the end.