There is a neighbour who have 2 sons (around 20 and 24 or so) I think.Big house ,2 vicious German Shepherd Dogs .Today morning I overheard the Father and the Sons conversation ,he was telling one of them to hiha the dogs poops or something.So he is like "Jose ,Ici ngui itikúhíhírwo mai Ùmúthí kana(These dogs will not be collected today or what) Jose was I think on the phone or something and said anga he will do it akimaliza kunywa chai.The father calls the smaller one called I think Joe ,Joe ! Onawe wi nyumba! (Joe you are still in the house) Joe comes dragging himself and stands Infront of the father.This time Iam peeping in a hole in their fence.He is told to collect the liter and clean the compound.
The father then continues, "Ndaugire as long as you live with me huku kazi lazima zifanywe.(I said as long as you live here work must be done) Na hio gari ioshwe leo " He then opens the gate and leave .
Okuyu children from rich families are lazy as fcuk, huyo mzee ajichunge, those mongrel sons might be putting steel wire in his meals, ajipate na ancestors. Alafu waponde mali to smithereens.
That’s not a good way to treat your grown up kids. You bring them closer and use a soft tone. Unless they are lazy or indisciplined. A 20-year guy is already a man.
Uko 24 na bado uko kwa mzazi? That shit is draining. Hutu tukazi tudogo na kuulizwa kila wakati ati unatoka wapi ndo kitu ilifanya nikahama haraka upesi. Huezi watch movie na amani banae, ukianza tu ivi unaskia ‘Sasa unataka nani akuoshee vyombo?’. Once umehit 18 na ukapata ID tu hivi, toka huko mbio sana. Tafuta hata kama ni bedsitter uanze life.
Joblessness. Jamaa wanatafuta kazi ya ofisi kabla watoke. Kwanza the peros who had money struggle sana. Their kids are used to a certain lifestyle. Ati waanze Maisha bedsitter Guthurai? They won’t take that. I know quite a few mid 30s still operating from home. And their parents don’t have the kind of money they had. It’s hanging onto illusions.
it’s their parents fault for calling them kababaa, almost stripping naked when a relative or teacher disciplines them the hard way, taking loans to buy them presents, making them grow with zero accountability juu “sisi tulikuwa tunachapwa tukiwa watoto”, and “hata wazungu hawachapangwi” and other nonsense
Kuna mtu najua ni saidii alienda akarentia vijana wake wawili one bedroom malindi. Wakae uko wavute bangi yeye awatumiange pesa ya food na bangi na mogokaa asiwahi waone kwake
Sometimes i blame parents.umemaliza Campo,no jobs zinapatikana,alafu mzazi hataki kukupatia startup capital ata kama ni ya mtumba.But keep on insisting utoke ukahustle kama wanaume wengine,coz that’s how they used To do in their Dem days.na usiniambie watafute mjengo thats how most graduates end up being drunkards