Brethren
If you, either brother or sister are living in a “come we stay” arrangement, you are living in sin, and you need to REPENT else you will be judged by Yah.
The God of Israel,Yahweh, does not acknowledge “come we stay” engagements as marriage.This is cohabitation.Cohabitation is a doctrine of men in error. Cohabitation is a sin.Cohabitation is lethal. Unless you come out of it, you will never see Jesus. Observe. People in “come we stay” arrangements NEVER have complete peace in their marriages. God is Love. So any union or covenant without Yeshua (Jesus Christ) as the foundation cannot hold.
Read John 4:1-42 Jesus meets the Samaritan Woman
This also applies if you are “shacking” before marriage.In Biblical Christianity, this is called fornication.Fornication is sin.Sleeping with your girlfriend or boyfriend before marriage does not make them wife/husband material even after 10 years of being together. No man has the wisdom/insight to determine who is wife material or not.Therefore man does not define the criteria that makes a man/woman, wife/husband material.Yahweh does. Most of us are moving in error because of lack of knowledge ,we therefore blindly inherit the ways/traditions of our forefathers, yet if you question them, no clear explanation is given.We “just do it”. If you follow the ways of your fathers and their gods, they will lead you to sin, and you will suffer their curses as a consequence to the fourth generation.(Deutronomy 5:9)
(Numbers 14:18)
So dont blame Jesus.
Solution
1.For fornication,just shut that evil program down and REPENT. Separation helps to cut the supply of evil energy that evil spirits are feeding on from the act.This does not mean you stop loving each other.Love can be expressed in many ways other than " premarital sexual experimentation". Avoid being in closed areas alone that may lead you to temptation.Try and ensure when you meet you are in an open area or in the company of other accountable people. If a man and a woman spend considerable amount of time alone, something will happen.Understand this from Lot and his daughters.
2. For cohabitation, if you dont have children, separate and move away from each other for a period that God will give and REPENT.At first it is difficult to accept this reality, but if you TRULY love Jesus, you will do what is right rather than what you “looks or feel” is right.
3.Go seek spiritual insight from God and go and get married in the ways of Yah before you come back together.
4.If you have children, go and seek counsel from Yah immediately or you will suffer its consequences.Also consult wise Godly counsel from a married man of Yah or couple. Try and understand why cohabitation is bad .If you clearly define the problem, you already have the solution. A lasting solution.
5.Do not follow society and traditions blindly without critical thinking. Do not follow what you are not allowed to question.God made each and everyone of us with an independent mind for a reason.In the times we live in, groupthink will lead you to severe pain,if not death.
Truth must be told. Stay away from cohabitation.