From my studies of army churches (which do not really have the ‘thou shalt not kill’ requirement as such), I have concluded that more men would attend church if the leadership attempts to:
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Create real challenges and responsibilities—roles where effort genuinely matters.
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Treat big questions seriously—science, doubt, ethics, and modern life included.
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Build authentic brotherhood—small circles where people talk honestly about life.
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Show visible impact—clear, measurable good happening because people show up.
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Lead with authenticity—leaders who share responsibility and speak like real humans.
Myself, I specialize in cosmic based female behavioural issues. I don’t particularly care about language because I was raised to speak my mind or be quiet.