Last weekend while I was out clubbing I bumped to my sisters husband with a beautiful totoz, more beautiful than my sister. What will be your take? Mm nimeshindwa nifanyeje, should I tell my sister about the meeting ama I should mind my own business?
Telling your sister about it will only make her more attracted to him. In her mind, the fact that her husband was spotted with a pretty chic proves he is a valuable commodity.
Obviously at first she will go ballistic. She will scream and nag and shout at him but when the tears dry, her love for him would increase tenfold. This will render her vulnerable to his manipulation.
That a man is cheating does not mean he will abandon his family. As it stands, your only concern should be the risk of the guy contracting an infection and passing it to your sister.
The only way to win in this situation is to do what other elders have said and mind your business. If you tell her and they break up she will eventually say you pushed her to do it (the streets aren’t safe and she’ll regret) and you will get all the blame. If you tell her and she confronts her husband but they end up staying together, now your brother in law will see you as meffi in his eyes and your sister will distance herself in order to protect her family.
So akipea the sister some strong dosage of std? Hidden children waanze kuleta shida? Mpango wa kando waanze issues? Apa sioni bro code. It’s usually okay until an issue that can’t be ignored occurs
What is my business? My sister is part of my family and that’s my business. I only know of the guy because of my sister, otherwise he would be a stranger to me.
When things get tough on my side, I will go to my family first for help and vice versa. That’s my family and it is my business
True. In some cases, to hell with bro code. And to those that saying mind your own business, my question to them is what is your business if it’s not your family?