This morning I was asking myself why Deka the gf to Hashim Dagane was not running away in spite of knowing what her bf had done and I realised that it had to be soul ties bcz what else would make a woman that irrational and blinded. At first I thought Hashim made sure that she didn’t know by keeping off the TV during news but then I heard that someone called her and wanted to report Hashim and she begged the person not to. Sex has power ladies. The power to keep you not just in relationships that don’t serve you but more importantly in relationships with extremely dangerous people. Let’s learn something today that can save our lives as women. RIP Deka Gorane. You will go into a sexual relationship with a man when you are whole and in perfect health and sound mind and leave as trash in a bag of bones. Let’s save ourselves by saying no to being sexual outside confines of marriage. Though it is not a guarantee but it’s better than taking on all that risk as a free lancer. Get a contract at least,it may still fall through but it’s beßßer than nothing.Let’s sensitive ourselves from the mishaps of other women. And save ourselves from trauma and even traumatizing our family members. You can imagine what that family of Deka is going through, their daughter killed in an Airbnb and no body ,just bones. Machos. Women we have to change how we do things from now on. Thank God government is taking the problem of femicide seriously and hunting the killers.97 murders in 3 months is a serious wake up call to Kenyan women . It can’t just be business as usual when we are bound to come across these dangerous criminals. We have to step back and be very clear minded to avoid victimisation.
