Mum was the glue that held the family together…after she passed on Dad swiftly remarried and the family simply fell apart
My younger sister who mum left when she was only 2 years grew up to be a truant teenager ;indiscipline, school expulsions, alcholol use ,teenage pregnancy… you name it
I stepped in to take care of her daughter (3 years old then) …stayed with the daughter so that the mother could concentrate in college.Baba mtoto aliingia karura
She secured both HELB loan and Govt TVET sponsorship which covered her fees …all I would do was pocket money for transport ,hostel and food
Was expecting her to graduate next year .Kumbe the Kunguru sister of mine has not been going to school for these 3 YEARS .
Yesterday I kicked her out together with her child back to the street where she belongs.
I also have a sister who belongs to the streets, i would gladly offer her to @uwesmake@Agwambo for a threesome. Ametuchosha sote, alihepa in August atarudi after a few months
Pole sana mkuu, but she is your sister maze. People handle distress differently. A combination of many family issues made your sister who she is. The kid is innocent though. Try being there for the both of them. Everyone deserves a second, third or even fourth chance. Especially if they are family. Kicking them out will have a detrimental effect on both your siz and the kid.I had a older step sister, someone made her pregnant and karurad and left her with a baby boy. When the baby boy got to 5years,my sister died. My elder bro took the kid as his own. The kid used to call him daddy. He came to know that my bro wasn’t the dad when he got to form 2.He studied hard, went to UON and after graduation got a job as a account manager at Johnson and Johnson eating around 250k per month na akaona dem Daktari mwenye alikua anakatia akienda kuuza madawa Nairobi Hospital. Mimi na yeye tume achana na kama 6years. When he was in colle he would invite me to bashes but he would tell me not to reveal that am the uncle, anadai mimi ni bro wake mkubwa. Used to just play along. Akifunga colle he would come hang out at my place. From these interactions we did our best to make sure he is well rounded as far as growing up is concerned. If my elder bro couldn’t have stepped up only God knows how the boy would have turned out. The only issue I have with him is that he thinks I know who his dad is and I have refused to tell him. Whenever he comes to my place and gets high on alcohol he keeps asking me that.
If you choose not to be there for your siz, at least be there for the kid. Thats what the Enigma would do based on his life experience.
If she’s your siz, please give her one more chance. Broaden your heart for the child though. From the look of things, the baby is yours, the mom won’t last long
Excuse me Mr @administrator sir. This thing of my name being tagged on any mater relating to sex, prostitution or orgies is becoming suffocating not to mention aggravating. I work hard as a man of good character to maintain good moral stature only for not so well meaning people to tag me in very dirty posts. Dear @administrator if this goes on I will have no option but to quit this forum and start a new one.Take action please. Thank you.
by the time I was taking in the daughter she had actually dropped out of college for no apparent reason … I called her ,invited one of my aunts and we talked to her and she confirmed she was ready to go back to school…kama ni kujaribu nimejaribu tangu akiwa high school where she was expelled twice …none of my family members want to touch her juu ya tabia zake…I really tried to be kind and nice to her in the hope that she will mould her self into something better…Jana nili give up
Kindly, take back the kid she isn’t safe in the streets. As for your sister she need to experience the streets to understand exactly what you were doing for her.