As a man, disclosing your salary to your wife is like telling the vulture where the meat is. I’m not saying women are vultures but they do come close. . .well. . most of them!
And as a woman how do you feel when he doesn’t disclose to you how much he earns
I cannot reveal what I earn, but to keep her expectations minimal, I may disclose 50% of what I earn to pass as 100% because if you fail to disclose her other option will be to push you till the limit ndio ajue kule unaanza kuumia akifika
I would disclose on condition that we are married and that she shows me her most recent salary payment slip and that we will share house expenses in a certain agreed manner. lakini kama ni girlfriend ama come we stay kinda marriage hapana…let me foot all the damn bills if necessary
Yes. I would give her one of my payslips but she doesn’t and will never care. In fact, she doesn’t know where i work in certainty so salo yangu would be least of her worries.