Wadau, the younger brother to my wife came around last month but sioni dalili ya yeye kwenda . Alimaliza campus last year Dec but jamaa has just been idling.
Sasa kwa nyumba kazi ni kuona series kutoka asubuhi Hadi jioni.mimi ntaka kuona news but jamaa ameng’ang’ana na seal team. Two weeks after amekam alimes na tv Hadi ikachomeka.
Mimi when my sister came hata siku tatu hazikuisha khupipi akaanza visirani. Hii naona italeta shida sasa
JuraMbitika Inaonekana wewe ni omega male. yaani jamaa inakuja kwako inakua Alpha Male… kwa nyumba yako?? hadi huwezi ona news juu mjamaa ana watch movie zake hakueshimu enough a pause movie hadi news iishe??. Shiet!, Shida.
woah, saii nikikumbuka vile niliwaste time na ujinga kama hizi badala ya kujifunza kuhustle in the name of kukosa kazi… kwa mwanaume that spells major trouble, not even socializing, doing nothing!
Face hime like a man kuhupipi atafura kwa muda tu else hujui unapangiwa nini the two of them. Ukianza kulipia siz yako ama cuzo wako fee kidogo hapo ndio maneno yataanza.
Mtafutie connections bana, mtoe kwa nyumba one saturday mstroll umshow aangalie ni problem gani anaweza solve na ilete pesa hapo kwa neighborhood.
I staid in relative’s homes but niliwaheshimu I gave them their time and space, they still call wondering if they offended me since I never visit, I tell them I am a grown man who is hustling.
Huyo jamaa msaidie atoke,akikataa niite tuvurute hiyo nyangau hadi kwa streets.
You are letting a good opportunity pass. There are probably more relatives either from your side or her side that you care about. This is an opportunity to show them what you are made of by dealing with the burukenge imekatalia kwako. Fukuza yeye like the ghasia he is. News of your actions will sift to them somehow and they will learn wasiwahi kimbilia lane yako. Basically they get to see what an asshole you can be without experiencing it themuselefus. Wakikuja kwako heshima inadumu.
Tricky sana. Ni muhimu sana you preserve your relationship because honestly speaking you won’t go broke over food and other simple costs here and there. Maybe he needs some time to figure himself out, a few more months. Just give him space to live his life without stressing over bills even for a few months, in due time he shall think of something. Buy another TV.
Have you tried to speak to your wife about it especially hapo kwa ishu ya TV? ALSO Please don’t listen to KT advisers about kicking him out. He is your wife’s younger bradah. Heshimu idumu.
You and your wife need to have a convo. [SIZE=1]That’s my 2 naira.[/SIZE]
6 months is an eternity but I would host someone given how well I know them. Are they my relatives or friends? if young…what will they be doing for 6 months? food is cheap here so no worries about that mtu ajibambe…can they clean up after themselves, bills like heating, water and wife ni bure since I would still pay up anyway…big Qs would be… do they have health insurance and who will pay for their travel and leisure shopping i.e clothes. This is something hubby and I would need to discuss in private.
Parents in law can stay that long bila maswali mob. Kuvumiliana and biting my tongue.
Back to the topic at hand…Chifu Mbitika here is complaining about a one month old guest yawaaaa…he should be addressing the issue of the remote control and the disrespect his bro-in-law is showing towards him.
Hope I have answered your query.
He needs to be a productive member of the household. He does not earn but has time so he should run errands and actively seek employment or internship. He must have responsibilities.
Do not be quiet but speak with your wife and him directly.
How you handled the TV issue was a seminal moment in your relationship with the young man.