i issue imeleta moto sana…wewe ni ka 27-30 year old umepata kadamez pahali…ndio umeanza kujiestablish kwa ivo salo si murwa sana considering the fact that unaeza kuwa umetarmac…pale kwa salo kuna rent considering that mtu anaenda kuoa haezi kaa bedsitter unakaa 1 bedroom which is between 15k-25k…tuseme the average 28year old in Kenya earns between 60k-150k…then upropose na malovey dovey zako zote…then uitishwe 400000 pale brideprice:eek::eek:…unatoa wapi jameni? considering umekuwa na kazi three years na unasave ata 10k per month pale kwa bank utakuwa na 360000…then woe unto you kadame kanataka wedding ingine fabulous amounting to around the same range…so mwanaume ni 900000-1.1 million pale:D:D
is this story ya brideprice becoming too much??? wale wamelipa ebu leteni maexperiences…
Huwa hatulipi nonsense. 50k max ama waoe mtoto wao
mbisha ya kadem tuone kama ni worth it.
Mi huse.a sitawai toa mahari…mabibi bi wengi
Well, my folks helped me out as well as my other relatives. If you cant do it alone, ask for help from your people. If you don’t have people, then you do what you are capable of doing.
Ferk!!! Huyu mwambie auze io weave mlipe mahari
nimeona 3 similar situations
hamkua na shida ya negotiations?
Wont pay a cent.
Not really. My cousin have had, and we just retreated outside, collected ourselves and came back with a counter offer. Usually, they will cave in, otherwise the chic will just leave anyway.
The only case where i know the chic’s people walikaa ngumu was where my pal was trying to marry a sudanese chic. The chic’s family wanted 100cows or something like that. And on that one there was no negotiation. He was allowed to bring them slowly but that story fell apart when he was caught with an import 
huyo ni dame wa @Ice_Cube :eek::eek::eek::eek:
Bride price inakuaga 400k? Nlidhani ni ma meter
Mimi naona sio lazima ulipe upfront, lipa ile unaeza then io ingine ni polepole…Lakini for the average Nairoby girl ata ndururu sitoi, kama ni kutoa lazima ikue exotic breed kile, lavi hivi hivi
You don’t pay the brideprice at once. I understand it is a lifetime obligation which by the way can even go unpaid after the first instalment
100 cows between 4500000 and 6000000:D:D
Yep, hii story ni pole pole, let inflation be your friend. Mtu aliitishwa 50k in 1990(a lot of money back then), na bado anailipa hadi sahii, he doesn’t feel a thing
Napeleka kondoo mbili za appreciation. Kama hawataki wachukue mtoto wao hata Mimi wazazi walinilea na shida.
Hahaha nikiona post ka hizi nahurumia wale ma boys hawaja -marry.
The truth is ukilipa mahari na upewe dame awe wife wako, mkirudi kwako she will be more respectful coz anajua watu wao wamekula mali yako .
Ananyenyekea !
On the plus size your parents will support n respect u!
nani walisema ng’ombe ya msudi ni 45k, its maximum 20k, though 100 cows is till a high price
sasawa but ata 2M ata kama utalipa pole pole its too much…i brideprice inafaa kuwa appreciation not selling a person…kwanza story za ati wamemsomesha mpaka uni