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I got married 12yrs ago with a baby boy from my past relationship,my husband loves my son so much as his own and we’re blessed with 3kids .my husband ni type ya wale watu wapole Hananga mambo mingi, I’m a housewife and my husband is the one who provides for us,any time hi buy clothes for his 3 children he always starts with my son ,Hana ubaguzi kwa watoto.
After 10yrs of out marriage is when I started getting rumours that that my husband has a child whom he got with his girlfriend before tuoane, at first I thought it was jokes or it’s jealousy from people so I didn’t took it seriously…my husband he’s so close to his elder sister hata wakiwa na Siri huezi jua,so one day I heard from my mother in-law that Kuna mtoto Ako inje na inafaa aletwe akae hapa azoeane na wengine,so I asked my husband is it true you have a son?and he said yes,then why did you not tell me earlier nijue,akasema hiyo ACHAna nayo I will handle it,mtoto akaletwa and yes he’s bigger than my child wa Kwanza mwenye nilipata na huyu Mzee wangu, I didn’t say anything I just accepted the kid and we started living together with him
Kidogo Tena I started hearing rumours again that my husband has another child, nilifanya followup nijue if it’s true but I wasn’t getting enough evidence .my co_sister akasema nimeskia bwanako ana mtoto inje mschana but the mother is still in university, it really broke my heart so I was eager to know if it’s true,I had to ask my sister in-law whether she aware of it but she didn’t tell me anything, asked my mother still haku niambia kitu,I confronted my husband ikabidi akubali ana mtoto but ni mdogo kwa wangu… meaning he cheated on me.now after is sister kujua Nishaambiwa ukweli she started saying that if I will not accept that child I should leave her brother with my born whom I came with.its it’s hurting me so much Niki kumbuka penye nime toka na huyu mwanaume ,we got married when he had nothing hata nyumba hakua ame Jenga,and now at least tume improve kiasi hata nyumba ame nijengea kubwa sana ya permanent.
Yes my first baby daddy still wants me back and we always communicate in private when I’m alone, but nashindwa if he will accept me with all my 4 children because we parted ways when my son was 2yrs and now he’s in high school na huyu mwanaume ndio ana msomesha even circumcision amefanyiwa huku nimeolwa though he know this is not his real dad because always talk his father. Nifanye aje kweli, I’m really confused I don’t know what to do and I can’t stand seeing my husband with another woman.