He robbed his roomie who he knew for 6 years? I wouldn’t have believed it if there was no video.
Why are 29 year olds still living together as housemates? America is crumbling.
Women currently lead in these sweepstakes…
I once saw a college mate go for a weekend home with his family and about 2 hours later , his squeeze was getting it on with another fellow in his room …
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I was so traumatized that I NEVER had a permanent Girl in college during my entire stay there …
The deal was always “Smash and Dump” …
Heartbreaking … :rolleyes:
I always took you for a free love kinda guy. Never thought that you were territorial. I think most people who are in college don’t have the maturity to understand exclusivity, I mean if a woman or a man for that matter is just sleeping with you with no commitment and nothing from you, why won’t he/she do it with the next guy. Sex wasn’t special enough to save from you so why should it be for whoever else wants it?
I think sex is only special or exclusive when there’s a price you paying for it. If not it just bcms a cheap commodity you dish out like you dish out sugar or salt to anyone who asks you for it without a second thought. My first relationship was in college, well it was a Christian college so it was easy not to get sexually involved bcz if you stepped into the opposite sex dorms, you were expelled but I dated a guy who was crazy possessive for 3 years and I never had sex with him. He was having sex with other women but he told me after I broke up with him. When we broke up he asked me if anyone would believe that I’d never had sex with him in 3years where we spent all our time together? I told him that it didn’t matter what people thought I wasn’t abstaining to gain their approval. God knew. I knew. And he knew. Many years later I lived in his home town for a couple of years. He was obsessed with me and he wanted to seduce me so that at least sleep with him eventually. He was married by then with 2 kids. I was still single. Of course I fell in love with someone else. He was angry. I told him that he was the married one not me. He begrudgingly told me that we umekataa wanaume and I told him but the guy I was in love with ni mwanaume so wanaume gani nimekataa. Sex outside marriage messes things up, there’s no way that you expect a woman or a man who you are not married to but you are having sex with to see sex as something special enough to be exclusive. Even if you get married if you had made a habit of sleeping around with all the women or men you dated, you are not going to stop cheapening sex bcz it’s something you are used to. It’s your modus operandi. If you have the hots for someone you sleep with them and there’s no shortage of hot men and women, so how many are you going to sleep With? All of them? You are going to date alot of people are you going to sleep with all of them? That’s why people should normalise dating without sex. The manosphere ideology that if she’s not sleeping with you she’s not your girlfriend and then later complain how women are sluts bcz you want to marry a virgin whose been dating people like you who won’t accept abstinence and are devicing all manner of tricks to get into women’s panties and reduce their resistance to sex. The easier it is for her to sleep with you when you are not married is about the same ease with which she will sleep with other men. And no matter what women always get sexual advances. So if they sleep with you for nothing except being called your gf or feelings they’ll sleep with the next hot guy who they have feelings for. As in the only way to not end up in that cycle of debauchery is either you don’t start or you stop cold turkey. It’s just like drugs. Say no to drugs and if you are hooked already either stop cold turkey or get a substitute like going to a methadone clinic. Something to get your mind completely occupied so that you can kill your cravings and soften the withdrawal symptoms. You can make sex great, exclusive and sacred even if you have worked in Kstreet. It’s called redemption and growth. You have outgrown toxic patterns that is if you already didn’t say no in the first time. I knew this guy whose mom had 5 sons with different men and boy was she beautiful and I was like how did something like this happen to such a beautiful woman and I realized that all it took was sleeping with the first guy then the next and the next and before she knew it she had 5 kids with 5 different men. They came they saw they added their own to the list. You know? It’s a slippery slope once you start going down some paths that look very harmless and even fun at first. Then it turns into a real life nightmare which will never leave you to the day you die. So prevention is better than cure. It is always better to err on the side of caution. Sex is not the joke people have made it out to be. It give you kids with people you want nothing to do with or an incurable life altering disease. I keep asking men if God created men as polygamous or women to be sluts why did He then allow for sexually transmitted diseases? Huh?
It’s not a question of being territorial …
It is a question of commitment (… and according to Charles Darwin , securing your blood line …)
Did you know that even some birds ( …Swans …) pair for life and when a partner dies , that’s it …
There is no real commitment to “invest” in a woman who sleeps with everyone …
Its a progression. So if a woman doesn’t value sex enough to keep it for only after marriage, she will not value it enough to keep it only for you. It’s a spiritual thing. Sex is a very powerful act but people have reduced it to a sport or a kind of drug which they misuse and abuse. With dire consequences. In fact the most promiscuous people are gey men, they have thrown themselves into a hedonistic lifestyle and the statistics are very grim for them, they die of HIV and cancers and they kill themselves at an extremely high rate. Nothing good comes from idolising lack of self control. All great human beings had to have self control. No greatness comes from debauchery.
That being said …
Is once a month okay for you … ??? :D:D
Even thrice a day is fine:cool: