Biggest lessons I've learnt in ktalk about life. Thank you elders

I posted my marriage troubles here and received so many responses each time that I had to mute. I then posted my unemployment issues and comments were all over but when I posted my wins about the work I’ve been doing, bonobos wouldn’t touch my posts with a 10 foot pole.
People only feel good when they see you suffering because it makes them feel they’re not alone in their sufferings but when you make it or try to get out of the mud, wivu huwaingia.
To all who have supported me through going the worst period of my life of losing everything, thank you. To other bonobos who thought i would always stay at rock bottom, thank you too.

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Elders huku ni watu ya ajabu sana. Pale German the term used to describe such behaviour is schadenfreude.

In the meantime hebu tuanbie mazuri elder.. nmezoea kuona ukilia hapa na pale

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Toa porno ita trend

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Tuko nyuma yako Elder. No homo

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Dont marry early is the simple truth.

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haha, you people forget we are all strangers here. No one is bothered about your wins

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Those are the days of the past. God has been blessing me daily. I have two jobs and also doing business. I’m also marinating a 24 year old, nitamwaga ndani soonest

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Just a general representation of life

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.. hehe, we forget by the way. Funny hakuna mtu anajua mwingine vile anakaa, tunajuana na ma user names

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Only Elvis Wafula alias @Moxmox anajulikana sura. I am sorry I doxxed him but makosa ilifanyika. Na siku hizi ametulia. Ni kama alienda rehab..

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Dawa zinafanya kazi, na zinaisha hii wiki. So sato atarudia thereapy huku

Remember who brought you out or you end up where you started. Word of advice.

Expectations is the root of dissapointment

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Don’t always be negative bro, ukiwa down people share advice zao na masweep out of their experiences or imaginations, when you’re winning what advice do you need? Msybe pahali utapata kunguru wako bei ndio utumie pesa kutumia? Ama tukupigie makofi juu ya hiyo achievement?

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so you are becoming a man :rofl:

The only thing I learned is that Ktalk is for entertainment purposes only. The moment uko na an important question uulize that’s when utajua how useless bonobos are in this forum.

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Hapa watu ni experts in 'Cancel Culture '..
Wanapenda collective online judgement, taking this place as digital courtroom.. discouraging people sharing genuine help..Sasa hata usitake serious advise

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Kijiji imejaa mostly mabeberu zinanuka jasho. The good thing is that when you posted about your downs, elders rushed to give you their thoughts to push you through the rough edges. Sweeps was a must because it is a jungle in here too. Makes people develop thick skin. Now that you have the wins, what else would they wanna tell you? You have the win already. But in the background, elders are celebrating with you. Hakuna wivu elder.

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The Elder likes External validation, which points to a deep internal issue that he needs to deal with first.