Story, story, story come… I came through kenyatalk some years back, I was a novice and newbie in terms of sexual relations. Ndo huyo Mimi, I joined tinder to search, nikapatana na a singe mum of one, I was thinking that, marrying a single mum is a good deal as they will be very loyal to you for taking them. Tukaanza kudate, ma road trips hapa na pale, I had a company vehicle a Prado that I was not fuelling, ma holidays Mombasa na ma sleepover.
Then nikaanza kusoma threads hapa, nikaskia about beta males, cuckoldry, hypergamy etc. I realized I am getting my self into a very bad deal, nikaona majamaa zinaongea about Rollo Tommassi and Richard Cooper books,nikaenda kusoma na kuresearch.
Then nikaskia about the journey to Embobut forest, nikaanza, morning dear have a good day, I send the text at 6 in the morning, then ikifika 10.30, good night dear nimekuwa busy sana, it went like this for like a month until she stopped texting back and that’s how I found my self in Embobut.
I turned 31 years the other day and I am now searching, as men we have no option, even Jesus cried for the cup to be removed from him but he still had to drink from it. Kuoa ni lazima no matter how we delay.
But I have gone back to the market to search with good experiences and lessons from kenyatalk e.g.
I cannot marry a lady nimekula, after sampling so many I have come to realize hii kitu ni same and all are sweet. This is important so that I am able to see my wife as special and a lady of principles, that she could also Waite. But while dating nikiona one willing to gawa, nakula then I start my journey to Embobut forest.
ladies who don’t deserve you will want to gawa so that they can trap you always wrap it up.
I am going as the prize no simping, the burden of performance is with the man, I know my value and I cannot beg soooo much, na upuzi za going down on my knees while I know I am the prize I can’t.
What dear lessons have you gathered from ktalk guys.
So if ukute msupa fine, yaani fine. Hana mtoi na hizo kasheshe. Then you struggle juu chini na mauwongo zote till ukapenya hizo nguo zake zote. Umweke ball, vile @miritiandes amesema hapo juu. Halafu ukadecide to go to the forest.
Ukawacha huyo msupa transformed into single mama. Sasa hapo kwa nini munasema such a single mama ni no-go-zone? Nini mbaya na yeye?
Shida sio yeye. Shida ni zile circumstances ako nazo despite her innocence. Fact remains ako na baggage sio yako, regardless of how she got it. Na ataexpect umsaidie kubeba. You don’t owe her understanding, unless you are a fool. The same way they don’t show you understanding ukiwa msoto sura ngumu kama @johntez addi gaza msafi
Best you should do is use her for siex and bounce ukishiba.
Ukimpata she’s not looking for love, she’s looking for help. Na huyo mtoto utakuwa tu unasponsor only finances. Tabia zote mbaya huwezi fanya kitu because “mum knows best” na si mtoto wako