Going with the flow I guess. I prefer when they are two or more pamoja, then they are more confident and open to continuing the conversation. I normally pick the last thing one of them said then quip in with something silly that goes along with it. Introducing myself follows swiftly, then just casual contributions to their conversation. Keep it fun and friendly, no sexual escalation at all. Bottom line is to break the ice enough to ask for phone numbers and get them. Always remember you are a stranger butting in, so they will be startled. But humans are interesting. They’ll follow your subconscious cues. If you are relaxed, fun and casual, soon they should follow your lead. I try to avoid sexual escalation until we are in a setting where if she responds favourably then the kill is on.
I think the most important part of a cold approach is knowing how to accept rejection gracefully. Ukilengwa ama ujibiwe vibaya, ama uangaliwe vibaya, or unyimwe number etc., take it with grace.
Wait dem wakiwa say 3 kuna mwenye obviously ako labda outstanding-looks,kubeba etc…how do you get her number at last,you know in the middle of the crowd/zero in