Just thinking about the young villagers who keep asking “where do you get girls, where do you get this and that type of woman”. The answer is simple; learn to be kind when talking to people around you even if you have absolutely no interest in hitting on them. look for something to compliment the woman. she may not be beautiful, and you may not even want to compliment her physical look, but compliment the service she gave you or the good she delivered, or appreciate something she said. they recognize positivity in you, and if you make it a habit, you see many of them seeking an opportunity to interact with you, and you can easily escalate without fearing rejection. Having many average and below-average women showing genuine interest to engage you on chit chat is like a magnet to hot girls around you in the same environment. It also helps build your “abundance mentality”, which every man needs to have about women. I am known as the office bad boy, and yes, I have nailed three colleagues with nothing ever going wrong. It all starts with a genuine interest in what the other person is telling me, and an appreciation of something about it all. It works both ways, not just women.
Mr.Kygo yes kindness like saying something as simple as “thank you” helps. You create that positive vibe around you. I interact with people both men and ladies whom whenever I bump into always smile as they say Hi and we have little conversation. Shida ya hapa kijiji ni lanyes have ruined our juveniles, they are harassed in those filthy dungeons where they pay for cheap sex ruining their confidence and walking with deception on their heads that ladies harass people
sure, this kindness is more recognized by the kawaida working girls, not hookers.
Vijana wa huku kwetu are vvvv lost. How on earth do you ‘salimiana how so’? It is not normal behaviour. How do you fish for young women on Tinder? why? aiiiiiiii…there are so many girls IRL.
Hii kitu hunisumbua sana sana:D:D… Mimi sijawai jua kuongelesha wanawake… “Kama hivo ndio huwa unaongelesha wanawake hutawai pata bibi” is a coomoon phrase to me which has being said to me like 100 times by different people… Since I was very young naongeleshaga wanawake kama makanga na matharao sana… A work mate had tried to teach me how to be nice to women nikaona huyo ananifunza kusimp…
I think I need legit lessons on this…
Jana ofisi kuna wasee wlitumwa kutoka department kuja kufanya kakazi fulani ofisi yetu… Since boss hakuwa, mimi ndio nilikuwa niwasupervise… A lady apo analeta uslay nikamwambia, “Sistee wacha ufala… Usifanye kazi apa ni kama ni make up unajipaka ama uko kitandani… Inua izo files vizuri vile unainuaga mwanaume wako!!” Alafu kila mtu ako,“Why do you talk to ladies like that?? Wewe huwezi pata bibi… Mbona huwa unatharao wanawake??”
But I dont find anything wrong with that… Surprising thing is napataga ladies ndio wananitafuta ata nikiwaongelesha ivo… So am just used to it
Or you can get your head off your own ass and talk to people much less provocative
You have an underlying issue which you project through your communication
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Mimi social skills zangu zinakuwanga before sea level.
Will definitely work on it.
In fact you’ll be surprised some months, maybe even years later, to hear one say she thought you used to show interest, when in reality you were just making small talk with no other intentions. To you it was just a game, but to her it was the start of something that never grew.
Senate iko aje, ule ghassia @Meria Mata anasemaje
Women will take advantage of your kindness, use you as emotional sponge. They start tell you shida zao one million, of which you have no intrest in and you have your own problems. The day you decide to ask for slice you already in the friend zone.
What has worked for me countless times, I don’t talk much, apparently women love mystery.
Ushauri wa Street hooker ndio hiyoooo!
Dark alleys of Hackney
…tunajua hadi mtaa unapopigia selli Kunyi dada! 
Hio advice hapo juu ni horseshit
Shit like that gets you into the friendzone faster than you can say Willy Wonka
Be an asshole
Kuwa mtu mpole, vuta bhangi zako, uwache kiherehere. Jibu tu kitu umeulizwa…this is the kindness we need in Kenya now