Wazito especially MBARUya , how do you deal with this etc in your life ? Nitume nisitume
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Tumia mama Ramsey pesa. ama Ramsey aletewe ma uncle wakija shot
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Ramsey Kalonzo
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This one is looking for salon money. If it’s a genuine need, tell her to make one list and send to you end month. Since she won’t, you can sleep easy knowing the responsibility is now on her.
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Pima mtoto DNA, it’s 20k nowadays, might save you 18 years of anguish and gnawing of teeth.
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18?? Make it 25 at least…a child today is a 25 year commitment. Before age 25 mtoto atakukula pesa tuu. That’s the age watapata stable job waache kukula pesa yako - if you are lucky.
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Ambia mama Ramsey atengeneze list. Halafu uchill. Akituma list mwambie akujie hizo vitu ziko kwa list na akuje na Ramsey. She will bitch about it but umnyamazie aamue mwenyewe kama anataka kukujia hizo vitu ama hapana.
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Probably born in 2011 to 2012
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School fees unatuma direct kwa shule. Chakula unatuma unga na sukari Kama IDP.
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Approximate how much a family of 2 will spend on eg rice, sukari, etc. Fanya hiyo shopping na umpelekee. Lipa school fees Kwa shule. Get school contact ndio ujue any other expenses zenye utaambiwa kama ni genuine.
Insurance kama uko na Yako hata kama ni nhif weka mtoto pekee. Ukiambiwa ni msick mwambie hosi yuko mpatane huko atumie insurance.
Rent ajilipie lease agreement is between her and landlord. Sio mtoto anakodesha nyumba.
Stima pia ajilipie na maji. Nguo chip in or buy ukiwa na mtoi sio kuitishwa pesa anunuliwe nguo.
Entertainment you offer to your child mkiwa na yeye sio kutuma pesa
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Mtoto haishi free.
Mwisi WA kuku na mayai wacha madharau humbwer wewe
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Thanks wadau for the input , especially hio ya tumia mama Ramsey pesa Ramsey asipate uncles kina @johntez_addi_gaza_ms wakikujia shot
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Hii inakaa Kunguru rude, ana kucommand aje kasee? Wacha Kwanza Ramsey akule kiburi ya mamake.
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Lakini pia wewe lazima aitishe ndio utume??? Kama mtoto ni wako vile wewe hukula ndio mtoto pia anaitaji kula so unaexpect akule nini? Be a responsible father.
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The slut is working plus she is from a well-off family hence the kiburi . Plus sijatuma juu ya eti Ramsey akule ,natuma nisipelekwe kortini
Kutuma pesa only works for a while, huyu ashajua what you are fearing, being taken to court, she will use and misuse you. Just be a responsible father, do what some elders have mentioned here, like
- List ya items and foodstuff required then do the shopping yourself
- Paying fees directly to the school and ensure you have a contact there. Visit the school as well.
- For rent and house bills wachia yeye, she is also a parent. Kulea mtoto hua 50/50
- Take responsibility ya health ya mtoto. Add Ramsey kwa NHIF or your private health cover. Mtoto pekee.
- Mavazi ya mtoto na going out ensure you take it up yourself. Use this as an opportunity to bond with your son. Wacha kijana yako ajue daddy ndio alininunulia nguo na viatu na tukaenda out ama swimo.
- Be a responsible father.
Halafu wacha kumdinya dinya when you get that opportunity since you sound as if you do that. Huyu atakusumbua hadi ukue depressed.
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