Guys I received a call this morning from baby mama. eti anadai nimpatie jembe yake. she was talking very rudely and disrespectfully. luckily my phone battery was 1% so it went off while she was talking. that jembe has been in my home all along. though i guess she was the one who bought it when things were sweet and rosy. we separated on june 2022 na leo, 2 years down the line ndio mtu anakumbuka jembe ni yake. what do you think guys? si hii ni uchokozi tu? anyway she sent her elder son to come for the jembe which i gave with no hesitation. and i bought mine. jembe tu!! si afadhali tunganganie nyumba ama gari? kwani how low can some ladies get?
She wanted a negative reaction and you starved her of it. Good play. Women can be petty, mwingine aliwacha a computer CPU pentium 3 kwa nyumba yangu an old relic kama ghasia. One day tu napata messages kama tatu saying I hand over her computer while talking very rudely after one year. Nilichukua nikaweka kwa gunia na kuweka nje. Told her to pick it iko nje ikinyeshewa it is on her.
Her eldest son? Kwani ako na wangapi? Kijana kwani ulijichanganya na single mother after all the warnings you have been getting? Can you elaborate please.
ELders note this, hii hasira ya upusi is a way women manipulate you, hapa ulicheza poa, hata ungemsho ulitupa takataka zake nje kitambo. Nyumba yako sio store, kwanza akaskie…
yes manze. ako na wawili. wake na wangu. hio ndio mess nilimake manze. i fell for a single mother back in 2018. brought her to my home. things were sweet untill they went sour. i guess i ignored some serious red flags. that was then. saa hii manze i can’t make such a mess again. single motha is a big no.
Thats why huwa nasema dem aki cheat ni rahisi kujua, she cannot serve two masters, utaona tu ana deal na “mashida” zake, behavioral changes, rudeness is one sign, anaonjwa ama anachapiwa, huwa hawajui kutulia wakianza kupewa attenshen, msee blind hufikiria ni nature ya mwanamke kuwa hivo, a lie that has been existing for ages, unapata msee anajipata ana bembeleza ama kujaribu kumtuliza ati ni hormonal changes, nonsense. Akidunywa nje utajua tu. Na hapo ndio huleta madharau…juu anaskia ako wasted, na gulit pia, so huwa anafunika na kuwa na madharau kujifanya hajali…
unaweza rudi kulalia mwanamke amekudharau hivyo aje surely? yani mpaka anaoa siwezi nunua jembe. manze seriously? huyu amechapwa stick huko eje mbaya sana. maybe that previous night she had not gotten some from the man she goes to. so ameona alete hasira kwangu.
manze you so right bro. ukiona wife yako ama dem yako ameanza kukuwa rude kwako, wewe jua tu umegongewa. or she starts coming home late, jua tu ametoka kugongwa. story ya hormonal changes hizo achia mafala hawajui kuread female phycology.