Oh, I don’t consider you strange, just as a woman who’s a bit mixed up about the realities of life: men love many women, that’s normal. There’s a solution for you though: just go back to the shrine and undo that bizarre vow, make a new one to cheerfully and greedily welcome mrija into your life till death. That’s how a normal human being lives. Everything else is a lie, and it’ll not work, you’ll see. Not because of witchcraft, but because that’s trying to live by a principle which is unnatural, impractical and anti-Life.
But don’t take my word for it, revisit this after another year, you will be grappling with the same issues, and wondering what’s wrong with people.
I made a vow in 2022 at the height of the femicide pandemic that I am not ready to die for people who can’t even give women orgasms. I closed that chapter for good. Let me return the box back to the owner ikiwa in mint condition.
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What I have written I have written. It’s not flattering, yet it’s true: Not even all the tears you will cry under those trees and all the words you’ll whisper or shout in prayer at any shrine can erase what is set by Nature as life for a woman to live. This is earth, it’s not yet heaven.
Sorry my dear, ce’st la vie.
There’s nothing like what is set by nature for a woman to live, gender is a social construct. Who is crying under trees? I’m crying or praying because of a man? 
You must not know about me!
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Ok, I’ll take your word for it on this one, for now. But since it’s definitely important, I suggest you accept @rexxsimba 's invite, we get enjoy his Bubbly (I’ll roast the steaks, fish and chicken wings, hehe) and we take this up at a cozier setting; I might even let you win the argument, or it’ll never end. It’s nice for people to be good to each other even while disagreeing, so don’t say no, just say maybe. Our Thika friend will be the only other steak holder, so you’ll be treated well.
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Oh, for fuck’s sake! These 3 musketeers can bore you to death! Na hiyo bubbly yao!
Why the fuck did I just read all 65 posts?!
Past disappointments will sometimes create a pathological distrust on involvement in relationships.
But it is similar to falling off a bicycle when learning to ride.
Soon , you get the hang of it and begin to enjoy the ride.
The biggest mistake in any relationship is poor choices ( ..Mama’s boys , tall handsome gigolos , rich arrogant sugar daddies , immature juveniles and insecure psychotic weirdos..)
..“You Shall Know Them by their Fruits”..
But ..
I can vouch for @Lionheart.
He is among the 1%.
And a Good Man is a rare find indeed..
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Unaita pastor steak holder young man?!
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Cc: @Lionheart :
“Steak” Holder , Stake Holder ..
Potato , Potatoe ..
Caramel Toe , Camel Toe ..
The proof of any “Pudding” is in the tasting..
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In an unlikely such event ..
It is nice to know that @Lionheart has a wide and comfortable shoulder ( ..and other more useful appendages..) to lean on ..!!
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