Is there a new trend where you meet a meet a chic and the first questions are “are you married?” and “do you have kids?” This has been my experience of late, the latest being yesterday in a club where I am hitting on this cute mama and those were the questions. What happened to having fun, flirting, getting to know one’s personality and not feeling like you are before a vetting committee?
hivyo ndio wanajipata wakiwa mipango ya kando bila kujua
getting to know
Kenyan ladies are becoming mad.
This desperation na marriage inachosha
What does she expect from a fisilet,
Security begins with you
So what were her reactions towards your answer?
I heard single men are becoming unattractive compared to fornicators.
They ask in stead of investigating pole pole. Most guys will lie of course just for fun or to enjoy the roller coaster experience. But that doesn’t seem to be the right question to ask in a club.
Yea that has been a common question ever since I hit late 20s, and nowadays am also subjected to “are you sure hauna watoto huko nje?”
hii sasa ndio hua common pia kwangu, you just say mwanaume cannot be too sure what with the encounters one has whenever he travels to far flung areas and towns
married men are taken more seriously since they can take care of someone!
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Maybe cos she wants to make sure that you are NOT married? Some women don’t like to be the other woman.
But we just met and in a club for that matter. I am thinking that would be a topic for another day.
I always have my ring on. So hizo swali hawezi uliza. Rarely do they turn down my moves.
How many women have asked you that question and were they all at the club, before i give my opinion?
Several. Not necessarily but mostly in a club since that’s where I socialise on weekends.
Dude…the answer to that should be a solid and confident yes and from there you will literally seek shelter as it will be raining pussy
Then I’ll have to agree with everyone else
Dude angalia kwa kioo. Then birth certificate then ID kama the first digits za id number are less than 244 eg 243, 242,241 na hujaoa. Buda huyo dem means good to you. Marry mzae.