Lady is still legally married to her husband. Is there a marriage certificate or evidence of customary marriage. The lady has deserted her matrimonial home. The lady is cohabiting with another man so adultery can be suspected,it does not need to be proven.
There are grounds for divorce.
After divorce he can apply for custody and claim lady engagaed in adultery in same house as the children. Infact he should storm the house and collect his Kids and then after a few months apply for custody and say mother deserted them.
Finally,take time to frame your questions well so that you get useful answers instead of a barrage of insults.
Mimi naona hii ntash ndio alikua anataka kujipanga na bibi ya wenyewe hadi watoto due to impotency lakini herds boy amemuchenga sasa anataka mawaidha ya elders.
Huyo houseboy achunge asikutiliwe na mapanga. On another side, kama mwoman alifukuzwa na husband, sioni shida akimove in na huyo houseboy. But men are jealous, so there is a likelihood the former husband atamkujia tu.
Why they parted ways I don’t know. All I know is that they fought and the woman ran away from the husband. Upon going to Her relatives, she were less concerned. She was moving from one homestead to another till the good Samaritan stepped in.
I am not sure that if the husband wants Her back. Since I visit upcountry once in a while. I didn’t have enough time to get all details.
No, the woman is not working. The oldest kid can attend kindergarten but they cannot afford. Probably next year He can join a government sponsored school.
The lady is just desperate. So if the husband is no longer interested in her he should just let her go,forget about her and move on. Ata houseboy pia ni mwanaume.