Andrea Lyod 27 yo pg and mom of 2 kids, remains found in Miami Dade next to her bfs truck

Surely, every single day there’s a woman being killed by the boyfriend or husband or fiance. What is so hard in just breaking up with someone. I don’t understand bcz for me breaking up with someone is like eating a piece of cake. I will just warn you a few times to stop your bad behavior and once I have had enough of your bullshit, I won’t even tell you I’m breaking up with you. I will just block you every where. No hard feelings. No drama and no turning back unless an angel of the Lord appears to me. Yes I may still love you but I just don’t have the energy to be going back and forth on an issues or issues that I can’t and you clearly either won’t change or can’t change. I am not going to chop you up for being yourself. I will just throw you back to the streets where you can find someone who has the energy for your bullshit. You can ask any of my exes, I didn’t tear their house up or do anything bad to them. I didn’t even say it’s over, I just withdrew and they read between the lines. I don’t understand why relationships can’t end with out a woman dying or a man. Can someone help me understand why you have to kill someone bcz for me I am like hata umenipunguzia kazi of thinking about you, now I can use that energy on something that’s giving me better returns. Lemme tell you if all you want is a relationship even if you are 70 you will have one, the issue is the quality of the relationship. If when you started things were awesome and now you are ever stressed, ever depressed, ever disappointed, you feel used and cheated. Look at it this way, if this person died today, your life would go on, so just assume that they are dead and buried and move on. At the end of the day killing the person won’t change anything for the better. If anything your life is now destroyed completely. You are going to jail. Even if you have kids, leave that toxic person. Eventually you will be OK and happy again. Stop the killing. Let’s control our emotions people. Self control is a fruit of the Spirit although I struggle with it when it comes to shopping but at least I’m not killing people I’m mad at.

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