@samson wa bible You are not the way ppl think. A woman cheating has everything to do with who she is a person. You putting up with that shit has to say with who you are as a person. Decide who you are and behave accordingly.
Some men are weak because you have all the evidence na huamini. The enemy is always close. Reminds me of my friend Mike who used to visit our other friend on weekends saa ile dem yake amekam kuvisit.
Mike used to send him on an errand like washing his car or to the supermarket anabaki kejani akikulia beshte yake dem ile mbaya. I didnât believe it hadi nilipoonyeshwa picha.
Mimi pia I have smashed dem ya beshte yangu while he was blacked out after a night of merry making. Jamaa tulimbeba hadi kejani, dropped him on the sofa and started smashing on the other sofa.
Just leave her or start smashing her sister which I think is impossiboe juu ushachoma.
Buda unajua how subtle women manipulation is? Unless ukuwe rada, you wont notice you are being manipulated.
It is usually masked behind concern. Am sure he was being told something like âBeb si uwache Brayo adrive juu umechokaâ or âBeb si uende ukae pale nyumaâ or âBeb si ubebwe na ile gari ingine sisi tukam na hii yakoâ.
Ukiona dem yako akikushow something like " beb si unipelekee hii plate jikoni" or send you to fetch something for her wewe umeisha. She will start doing it to you in front of friends.
Cut ties and do not âremain friendsâ. Sheâll try that to happen so she can still use you as an emotional tampon and wallet akipewa mti na watu wengine and then keep you as backup when all the alpha males donât want to settle with her
Work on yourself. Sheâll coming looking for you in less than a year, even in a month trying to get to you through friends and family, trying to shift blame too âWhy didnât we give it a chance, your jealousy ruined what we hadâ etc. Hapo you smile and know hakuna mtu who wants to commit or she misses the things you do (she doesnât miss you, she misses the things you do). But by then, hutakuwa na scarcity mindset. Do not even reply. It is just a test to see if she still has an effect on you. Bluetick and move on with life. Hapo is when sheâll start chasing because women wako bangi. This has happened to me a few times, not the cheating part, but women taking advantage of kindness and thinking youâll never leave. Show them you will. And next time set proper boundaries mapema. Nip it in the bud
Girlfriend of 5 years damn
Na hamna ata watoto
Ungetia yeye mimba mapema
right now you canât coz you wonât even know it whoâs
My advice
Get peace of mind first
The only way you can do that is getting her out of sight .by keeping her you will have unnecessary ulcers and pressure.in this situation there is nothing much you can do. You canât chain her, kuweka trackers and such ni upus
In my few years here on earth I have learnt between two couples, only one loves the other more and would sacrifice anything for the other.the other not so much. Usiwai danganywa itâs mutual.men are usually advised to marry a woman who loves them. Donât marry a woman who you have a crush on.it wonât end well.
In this case itâs you who loves her more.she clearly doesnât care about how you feel even after those gestures.another thing if a woman loves you she will tell you all her secrets including being hit on by friends and such unknowingly.a manâs instincts are usually right.hapa hamna repairs⌠be a man of action quit ranting a make that decision . Ignore her theatrics .call it quits and thank her for the years.
You wouldnât want a wife with children pulling these tricks.God is showing you the red flags, ignore at your own peril
A wife cheating with a close friend or relative is hard to detect, and even harder to prove. This is because most signs of illicit relations can be easily explained away by people who are close. When such relations happen, they can go on for years before the man discovers, and this often happens when the offenders are no longer afraid of being discovered.
For you to prove such relations exist, you need undeniable proof i.e. evidence of the two beings doing the actual deed; not kissing, not hugging, but doing the actual thing. Luckily for you, this is easy to do. Think of hidden video recorders or sound recorders, which you can discreetly place in locations you know the two will be together alone. You could even leave your phone in such a location with the sound recorder turned on. That said, you must be really patient and not look suspicious at all.
No you are overthinking, you should be greatful uyo mjamaa anakuchungia girlfriend hadi wanapotea njia and still he finds finds a way home just for you. Itâs certain that ka huwa unakunywa unazima hamkuli mbele yako with loud moans.