Wah. The harsh truths in this interview had me wondering if we ever think as parents that how we live our lives in front of our children, is the template of our children’s lives.
I have often seen the adage that the best way to show your children that you love them, is by loving their mother. I never understood it as clearly as I have just now listening to this girl talking about her dad.
Women we need to be very intentional when choosing who we have children with, it’s not a matter of taking what you can get bcz any father is better than none. After listening to what this child has been through I firmly believe that a single mother is better than such a toxic father.
What kind of a father would offer his daughter a joint? It was so heartbreaking to hear her say, it finally hit me that my dad didn’t love me and I look like him. If your own father who you even look like doesn’t love you, how would you believe that you deserve love and to be treated with dignity and respect by others?
This is the most heartbreaking interview I have ever listened to because the men I know love their daughters so much. I don’t even want to imagine what this young lady is going through. She can’t go to university because of her dad. Yaani this is the height of heartbreak. I swear I rather never have kids if this is what my kids will go through.
I know her dad will watch this interview, I don’t think that any sane father wants this to be what their children remember them by. Wah. By the time a man has fallen so low, he’s a shell, he’s sick and quite plainly he’s insane.
Every child deserves parents but not all parents deserve children. This is beyond heartbreaking. I can’t imagine my child saying this about me. I could not live with myself because in this world there’s no purer love than the love a child has for their parents, by the time your child wants nothing more to do with you because you have completely killed the love they had for you, you are irredeemable.
In life we make a lot mistakes and we do a lot of things that we regret but then we usually have only our own conscience and consequences to deal with but when you have a child, your regrettable deeds are forever etched in your child’s most precious memories those of their childhood whose innocence you ruined by being thoughtless and irresponsible. It’s beyond tragic.
I know we are human but we at the very least have to try to put our best foot forward for the sake of our children. It’s so painful when your kids have nothing good to say about you. Very heartbreaking. No wonder this generation is so messed up. If your own father can give you a blunt, what is wrong with you getting an fans account or making homosexual sex tapes like Kisii men. We are raising a broken generation.
For women, we choose who gets to be the father of our children it’s not a decision to be taken lightly or flippantly. If you pick wrong you have set up your kids for a lifetime of heartache. If a man is not a loving partner to you, he’s highly unlikely to be a good father to your children. If the mistakes have been made, it’s even better to be a single mother than put your children through this kind of trauma in the name of keeping their father in their life. You can’t break your kid’s heart to hold on to their toxic father.
We take our caring and loving dads for granted it’s not until you hear such heartbreaking stories that you realize that you won the dad lotto. Yaani there’s people out here who have such evil and callous fathers. How can you do this to your own kid? I’m shaken.