30yo virgin to single mother - You can never win with men!

I’m a woman who done seen it all. The only thing I will never see is a maternity! Let me tell you, once a man impregnates you as a woman, there’s no comeback. None! That made me so afraid that for the short period I was busy trying to look for a baby, I wanted to make sure that I had as much control of it as possible! It wasn’t going to be a man saw me and decided I’ll have his kid. It was about me making sure that the donor ticks all the boxes. Like going shopping! You look until you get the perfect donor! So I can’t relate to I was a virgin and then the first time I had sex I became a single mother! If I am going to get pregnant, it’ll be because I want it not because some man tricked me!

Noma sana. I believe this to be true, based on firsthand observation of close relatives.