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With Work There Are Three Options: Work A Normal Job, And On Your Passion During Free Hours; Work A Normal Job For The Time Being But Pursue A Job Or Career That Aligns With Your Passion; Ditch A Normal Job Once You Are Relatively Stable (Financially) And Live On The Edge (Less Security As No Salary) By Trying To Make Money In Your Passion. However, The Third Seems The Best One Since You Live On Your Own Terms And Not On The Dictatorship Of Someone Else’s Narrative. All In All, Be Selective About Professions And Look For Something That Does Not Invade Your Free Hours And Free Time When Not Actively Working.
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Live Slightly On The Edge; Don’t Follow An Extremely Strict Schedule/Routine.Allow Some Spontaneity In Your Life. This Does Not Mean Lacking Discipline Or Not Having A Routine. This Includes Financially Where There Is A Notion To Have Strict Financial Discipline In Saving And Investing. Splurge A Little On Something Intangible Or Even Tangible That Cannot Be Considered An “Investment”. This Makes Life More Interesting. We Are Truly Alive In Those Moments When We Improvise And Not Running On A Strict Schedule And Notion/Expectation. Preoccupation With Efficacy And Routine Is The Main Hindrance To An Elegant Life. Even Socially (In Seduction), It Is The Appearance Of Inconsistency (The Mystery Effect) That Makes One More Attractive.
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Free Time Is Not A Vice. Matter Of Fact, ‘Success’ Can Be Judged By How Much Free Time You Have. What Many Call Time-Wasting Is Actually An Investment And Makes Your Brain More Efficient. (Recall The Fact That The Best Ideas Come In The Shower Or While Taking A Walk And Not When You Instruct And Forcing Your Brain What To Do). You Can Say You Are Truly Free (Especially Financially) When You Spend A Long Time Doing Absolutely Nothing And Feeling No Remorse About It.
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In This Regard, Do Not Fill Your Free Time With AudioVisual Stimulation (Especially Social Media). Social Media Is Actually An Extremely Unhealthy Place (This Explains Why Many Feel More Peaceful And Attain More Mental Clarity After A Social Media Fast). Read More Books As This Is The Only Medium Where Purity Has Been Retained And You Are Not Being Manipulated By An Advertisement And Hidden Agendas. Read Broadly On All Issues Apart From Fiction Including Finance, History, Philosophy e.t.c
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Procrastination Is The Soul Rebelling Against Entrapment. Follow Your Gut Feeling. However, Try Changing Environment And Routine As This Could Be The Issue; Your Soul Rejecting Your Way Of Doing Rather Than What You Are Doing.
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It Is Easier To Fast Than To Diet. Thus, It Is Easier To Completely Cut-Off Something Than Take A Break From It. However, Be Careful, Many Feed Their Obsessions By Trying To Get Rid Of Them. Thus, Weaning Off (Dieting) With The Aim Of Completely Cutting Something Off Is The Most Effective Way To Go.
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Many Actually Look For Role Models And Mentors. Although There Is No Issue With This, It Is Easier To Find People Who You Do Not Want To Resemble When You Grow Up. This Is The Same With Knowledge Which Is Subtractive Rather Than Additive. You Learn Better By Finding What Not To Do Rather Than What To Do Rather Than Vice-Versa. Matter Of Fact, It Is Difficult To Forget What You Learn Harshly On Your Own. In This Regard, Be Wary Of Teachers/Gurus Who Tell You What To Do Rather Than What Not To Do. Even In Business, One Can Learn Better From Their Failures (What Did Not Work) Rather Than What Worked. Thus, Look For Stories Of Failures To Learn Better Rather Than These ‘Cliché’ Stories Of What To Do To Achieve ‘Success’ Such As Waking Up Early, Taking Risks E.t.c
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You Need To Keep Reminding Yourself: Charm Lies In The Unsaid, The Unwritten, And The Un-displayed. It Takes Mastery To Control Silence. Even In Dating, It Is Often Discovered That People Are Far More Interesting In What They Don’t Publicly Display Or Show About Themselves. In This Regard, Try To Avoid Social Media And Living A Life Of Spectacle.
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Be Self-Reliant (In Matters Of Values). Don’t Follow The Collective Especially With Modern “Values” And “Ideals” And Display A Polite Disdain In Values That Don’t Align With You. (Don’t Show Hatred, This Brings You To Their Level). Stand Up For Your Cultural Values When Others Do Not So As To Shield Their Reputation. The Virtue In Most Request Today Is Conformity. Self-Reliance Is Its Aversion. Protect Yourself From This Momentum Of Intellectual And Moral Consensus (Read Decay)Especially During Your Youth.
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There Is No Such Thing As An Alpha Male. This Is Simply Trying To Mask A Deep And Almost Incurable Weakness By ‘Cliché’ Ways Such As Hyper-Sexuality And Excessive Working Out. Remember, Weak Men Act On Their Needs And Masking Their Weakness While Strong Men Act On Their Duties And Work On Improving Their Strengths. Anyone Who Calls Themselves An Alpha Male Is Not One. In Fact, Many Become Abhorrent By Trying To Hide/Mask Their Weaknesses.
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There Is No Universal Standard Of Success And This Is True Because Of Many Backgrounds And Contexts. In Real Life, No One Can Know And Judge Whether One Has One Won Or Lost In Life. However, One Can Tell Whether One Is Heroic/Courageous Or Not. The Rest Are Silly Metrics For Gauging ‘Success’ And Lavish Standards. Your Mind Does Not Care About Arbitrary Numbers (Such As A Million Dollars), Your Ego Does Though. Your Mind Only Cares About What You Do Now And Everyday. This Is Why Goal-Setting Does Not Work For Most Since Many Work Backward By Trying To Achieve An Arbitrary State Rather Than Relishing In The Process. Goal Setting Would Not Be Necessary If You Are Pursuing Something You Truly Want As You Would Do It Everyday.
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Contrary To Popular Belief, One Becomes Rich By Socializing With The Poor Rather Than Socializing With The Rich. However, In Modern Times This Seems To Be Not The Case As Many View Getting Rich In Terms Of Exploiting/Manipulating Rich People For Money, Information And Opportunities. Many Rich People Can Tell This And Usually Start Withholding These ‘Gems’ Or Straight-Up Exploiting You. Poor People Can Give You Insight You Might Not Get In Your Domain And Cocoon Of Like-Minded People.
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Three Things A Modern Man Wishes For, Four Things He Craves, Five Things He Seeks (Consciously Or Subconsciously): Money & Financial Freedom, Girls (Love And Sex), Knowledge, Power (Over One’s Bestial Instincts And Over Others), Fame & Influence (In Their Respective Domain). At Any One Time, He Is Pursuing Two Or Three (Never All Five), But He Seeks And Focuses On One With More Energy Than The Rest At Any One Time.
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Great job.
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