Women who are denied access to their their children by baby daddies

There’s a guy who told me how he bribed children court to get sole custody of his son. He told me how he even did shopping for the lady who was to decide and gave her some cultural mambo jambo ati mtoto atakufa coz she was with another guy and slept with the baby in the bed. Ile mambo aliniambia I was like wah so child court is that corrupt. Choose who you get kids with wisely bcz it’s permanent.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gCU_iTEaeUQ

Ghasia Tru-UMBWAcapote niaje

By the way this is the lady who was paying fees for the man and they’re both in campus. Endeleni kujifanya Mother Teresa to this man, mutafunzwa na ulimwengu. Student unalipiaje student mwenzako fees? Aki women are too desperate. God save us from demonic desperation msichana mzuri ni nini amekosa, Unaenda kuteswa na wanaume. God open the eyes of our women.

@Finest wine

This one cuts both ways. I have many friends here who have refused to let the baby daddies see their kids. Not because they are violent but because the men moved on. Mimi huwa silelewi why. My advice to them ni peana mtoto and enjoy some me time, come to my house tumeze crushed grapes, ama uende salon…wanakata. Likewise most Kenyan men don’t appreciate wakipewa watoto. They bounce the appointments when they discover you are going out not knowing how detrimental this is to the child. Wanakataa kutoa pesa. In the end child maintenance gets involved. And everyone is happy.
BTW Lynn mentioned that the Rwandese woman got her kids back?

Mimi husema mara nyingi sana. Red flags manifest themselves during courtship. Also I strongly believe one’s upbringing matters. My mother always told us to work hard and get jobs. She said that being a woman has some disadvantages. She said that give me give me give me money for salt and pads does not always work and that a man can easily mistreat you because you have no options. She also said you cannot eat love…
Anyways what I find disturbing is you will find someone repeating the same mistake instead of learning from it.

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The problem is that you as a woman are supporting a man who is abusing you. This lady would be very far if she was not with this man. Anyway maybe she was lonely coz she grew up in a children’s home. Orphans can be like that. They just want a family and may end up in wrong hands. My adopted son was seeing a lady who was not good for him and he was already telling me he wants to marry her. Luckily things fell apart before he got more invested but her extended family is also abusive. God will come through for her, He always does for orphans. I felt so bad when I heard she grew up in a children’s home.

Background checks ni muhimu sana.
Meanwhile listen to my gal Shaybo…from beg to end. I like her so much. What do you think of her message?