If there is something you should never give a woman is your money. Iyo pesa you count it ni kama ile ya mganga imeenda na haitarudi. A few years ago, I learnt this hard lesson. So there was this bitch who we were just friends lakini chini ya maji tulikuwa tunakulananga. She was in campus 2nd year who I met in some house party in Ngong, house party yenye niligate crash. Msichana alikuwa anapenda kuvuta bangi and so since I had several blunts with me tulivuta pamoja. We all got high on the shash and we ended up fucking in the bathroom. Come morning ndo huyo mimi nimeamka nataka kurudi kwangu and guess who follows back out the door; the weed girl lets call her Sue. So tukitembea kwenda stage, tukachapiana story mbili tatu, namba nikapewa na ivo ndo tukakuwa mabeshte wanakulana. She would come over to my house, we would get high on weed and fuck like rabbits. I would fuck her till I would start shooting air out of my dick.
So this day, after fucking hapo tu kwa pillow talk, she tells me how she needs some money to pay her tuition fee since she misappropriated some 5k by risking some business (which she didnt tell me the business) which failed and the money went down the drain so she needed 5k so as to clear the fee balance and get the exam card since the exams were around the corner and you couldnt sit the exams without an exam card. At first, I ignored the request and told her I would think about it. As days went by, she grew persistent and would ask me for the money. So this day after fucking she asked me if I am going to help her or not which I didnt feel like. She had this sign of sadness which she followed by telling me how she had hopes on me na nilimpromise ntamsaidia and time was running out since the exams were starting in 3 days. I couldnt tell if it was genuine or not so I fell for it and a day before the supposed deadline for fee clearance I sent her the 5k she wanted. She called me and was very excited about it and promised to pay me back in two weeks time.
During that exam period hatukuongea since sikutaka kuwa distraction kwake akifanya exams. After the exams were over and the two weeks time period had elapsed; nikamuulizia pesa yangu na hapo ndo hekaya zilianza. The first time she told, “Aki nimeshikana nipee wiki ingine ntakurudishia”. I obliged. At this time, hakuwa anakam kejani hata nikimuita she would bring all manner of excuses. After the week elapsed nikaamuuliza pesa yangu iko wapi na hapo ndo mambo ilianza kuchemka. She texted me, " Sasa 5k ni kitu ya kuharakisha mtu". I let it go. The next day I asked her pesa yangu utanilipa lini, which she replied by saying, “Wewe mwanaume mkubwa unauliza msichana akupee 5k, jiheshimu bro’. Vile niliona ameniita bro nikajua hii pesa siipati. I tried to tell her vile nilikuwa namasaidia wakati alikuwa na shida and she went on a very bad rant,
" Wewe kuma yangu na vile ulikuwa unaikula ni kama unakufa kesho kuna siku niliwahi kuitisha pesa?”
“Wewe hata fare hukuwa unanipea ulikuwa unaexpect ntatoa wapi doo ya kuja kwako”
“Wanaume wengine huku nje wanapeana 5M na hawaitishi wewe 5k pekee ndo unataka kuniua nayo?”
“Unanijazia simu na text zako za 5k na ulikuwa unanikula na condom za 30bob”.
At that point, nikaona this was getting bad, just blocked the bitch completely on all places. From facebook to WhatsApp to Messaging to calls. She tried calling me with other numbers to continue ranting but I blocked them. Huyu naye alikuwa mwendawazimu and she would get several numbers to continue abusing me and I was forced to disable the number and get a new one. I was even forced to get a new padlock incase she came and opened my house and cause mayhem since she had a spare key. 5k yangu ilikunywanga maji ivo tu. Ogopa wanawake.
Na wanaume pia wameanza tabia kama hizo. Nishaiokolea morio and it ended up ugly. Story for another day.