Why women should not have sex with people they're not married to

I always tell women that they are very vulnerable and societal and religious rules to say no to sex outside the confines of marriage are there for the protection of women. Nowadays it’s trendy to have sex outside marriage. Well, the consequences have not changed. You can get AIDS. Women are 10 times more vulnerable to catch HIV than men. You will get pregnant. The chances of marriage after becoming an unwed mother to the father of your child or any other man is next to nil. Why can’t we just obey the word of God ladies, it’s there to protect us. Anyway, kama unataka kujifanya mrui, ati vile we ni Otero wa kusambaza nunu outside marriage na huwezi hata insist on condoms matokeo ndio haya. Being dumped during pregnancy does not understand how modern you are. If you didn’t insist on marriage before opening your leg, usisumbue watu when consequences come as they always do.

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Advise me on how to forget baby daddy and am pregnant for him,it’s painful loosing him and he said he would marry another woman soon,am stressed up and my unborn child is suffering honestly coz I am stressed and I cry every day and night
We had a disagreement with him and later his father akaingililia so father in law told my Baby Daddy to marry someone else,I feel helpless I have nobody to help me

Pls help me post and hide my id ,me and my boyfriend have 2 kids already we stay together… he supports me in everything only marriage is what we are lacking… because we are not married. My problem now is that… am pregnant for the 3rd time contraceptive failed me… the pregnancy is 8weeks 5days… i really want to abort it but he doesn’t want me to abort it and any time i talk about aborting the baby he gets mad at me but how can i give 3 kids to a man who is not ready to pay my bride price ?and he cheats a lot too but we don’t lack any thing in the house.
Please house… help me am really confused here… note i am not from the same country as his bt i love him no doubt about that…

please what can i do?

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