What do you do after your 'Girlfriend' is 'allegedly' raped?

There is a lady we’ve been together for three years. We met in campus as I was finalizing, she was in her first year. She’s now a finalist. Mtu ametulia tu hana mambo mingi, she valued the relationship, I feel its because she was amongst the few of her few friends dating a working guy.

Fast forward to last year, COVID came and she went home. She would spare atleast two weekends a month, come to Nairobi and see me. Around august last year, after several raw rounds she went home, weeks later she would complain of delayed menses and vaginal pain na alkua na wasi wasi mtoi anakam. Hiyo ningetoa tu bado. Anyway she came to town again, this time ata kuhit ilkua ngori juu alkua anacomplain uchungu. Anyway alinyesha finally. But something changed.

After a few weeks, hapo end of september she changed a lot, no more lovely messages, no frequent calls etc…She even relocated from home and moved to her rural home in kuishi na shosho yake. After hiyo silent treatment, as a redpilled man, nkaona siwezipembeleza yeye. I ignored as well and moved on mbio sana bila madharau. So since then imekua tu salamu kidogo ya hapa pale. Nothing much. Ata nlidhani ameshapata mtu mwingine amemchanganya. But hakukua na any evidences za any date pics, travelling ama picha za gifts vile wanafanyanga when they are stupid in love. My insticts suggested so.

Anyway, she then resurfaces later but then everytime we talked it would always end up in arguements. Long story short, this week after the arguments on phone, I tell her openly I knew she cheated, and that must have been around last year september when she changed a lot.

However, she opens up that she discovered her ‘step brother’ alkua anwaekea mchele yeye na cuzo yake and raping them at night. She claims the younger cousin is in form two and was taken to hospital, the guy even escaped home. She was too hurt and left, her step mother further moved her out claiming anadanganya na amefukuza kijana yake home. She explains that she has been going through a lot and that’s why she needed a place and time to heal.
I told her off, nikamuambia hiyo ni hekaya za abunuasi, she got angry and wrote paragraphs. I later called, she picked na tukiongea she was insisting it’s embarassing and its the last time we would talk ati nitafte tu dem mwingine, (she suspects I already moved on). Now Im in a dilemma, on whether to just leave her alone, I totally have no problem with that, ama her situation is serious and I should try and at least pretend I care vile tu unaeza sympathize na mtu who has gone through shit. I suggested akuje tuongee hii issue inakaa serious but she said a big NO since I have never bothered to care.
I need wise counsel elders.

Patia stepbrother wake salamu zetu mkisalimiana brathe

If your girlfriend gets pregnant, then tells you some cock and bull story about being drugged in her own house, move on. Immediately.

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Just move on kaka brasa … though apo umeangusha huyo denge. Alikusho usiambie mtu but wewe umeleta hekaya apa kwa kijiji

Amesema iyo ni last text na bado anaongeza zingine mbili izo ni hekaya ya abunuas

Wachana na huyo Kunguru…move on and rebuild your life

She is not pregnant. Soma thread vizuri.

Ka mbali na watu wa mashida ndogo ndogo

1 si saa zote ni sa ya mchezo bana…rather than always being suspicious…give someone the benefit of the doubt…listen more and try putting yourself in the other persons shoes and try understand their plight…
2 a bit of empathy and sympathy bana…usisahau pia wewe ni bin adam and one day one time you WILL need the same…note i said WILL and not MIGHT…buda as long as your in God’s green earth…you havent seen the half of it.
3 Kama unaona una ingia karura…atleast try nyenyekea kiasi and help her in any way you can…atleast aku ambie asante mwachane on a good note in good terms her last memory of you ikue positive…i preferer kuachana na watu hivyo regardless who did what.
4 Sasa tutaku advice aje na unasema hujali?
Yule atanitusi anitusi tu but its a new year…lets be better more caring people…life is hard as it is and we need each other more than ever.

:D:D amemsaliti… Amecheza ki escariot

Its good to be nice…kwanza someone going through shit…nitaandika hekaya soon

Buda, vitu zingine zinatakanga wise counsel.
Rape ni allegation serious kuassume. Lakini pia ancestors wananiambia kunguru hafugiki.

I think no matter what the truth is, you need to move on… this is a complicated matter already… Because the ‘STEP Brother’ will still be part of her life and this is bound to continue… are you ready for this?

ni aje huyo msichana alikua anapewa ruhusa kuja kwako twice kila mwezi na hamjaoana? means ametoka boma milango wazi, mtoto aeza toka na kuingia anytime vile anajihisi, msichana.

Nimesoma oee. “Late period?” Alikuwa anaflash. Alidungwa mimba.

Msichana akitaka kukamia mjuols anafanyanga kila kitu within her means kukamia. Ni mtu ako na young relatives hii town ni kusema tu amewatembelea.
Plus ameraisiwa in a blended home, hawa watoto wakifikanga 18 wanakuambia live wewe si mzazi wake uachane na yy. Hapa elders wameoa single mothers can relate.

Nlikua nimedryfry, akameza p2. That’s not important now. Elder Focus.

That is not important now? Anyway, just move on.

Dude, something in you, some humanity in you is telling you something. That this girl is telling you some truth. This is a difficult one because you seem to be going by what you read on KT. That she is a kunguru yet you are the one that knows her better than anyone here.
Pls be nice to her.