Wazazii saidiaa apa..

Wadua nikoo na ‘junior… fake name’ my son 13yrs, ako class 7 next year ni candidate… uyu mtoi amekuwa time yote ni kukaaa kwa hao the whole day na ps4 since nibuyie kama present ya bash yake last year Aprill 28th, off late awakuwa very noisy kwa room yake na ma agemate wake… especially niki nurse mahung’i ma Sunday ‘family day’ siwes tulia kwa hao nicheki ka movie ama niigiee Kijiji kusafishaa macho na amani, yelling n shouting ndio zao, then chuo junior hapreform mode anadai mtoi ni kufloss na kelele za venye ako gta mbele ya kila mtu, na guess hao watoi ni maclassmates maybe … chidaa ni mmoja wadua hii situation nita sort aje sasa… For me na think nikam nikiwaa tei ni chapanishee… wazazi kamini msaidiee comrade… mabachelor na wasee wa kawasaki songeni kidogo hii ni kamukunji ya wazazi tu…

So you would want to address an issue that you feel is serious and deserve your attention when you are drunk?

Break hiyo gta akiona… Mwambie ataget ps4 akiget certain grade. Alternatively waeza mpeleka old system, kwa chief apewe beating ya 1 wk na kufagia fagia huko…

Tulisema watoto wa singomatha ,ni taabu bin taabu.

Kama awa ndio wazizi the future is fucked… yaani mwanaume muzima ako candidate haperform yet he is allowed to play PlayStation the whole day while disturbing the peace in the house. This is nxt level stupidity!
How is this even a dilemma?

Seems that spoilt brat ndio husema hiyo boma. Go and ask him how to solve the issue nugu hii.

I pity you. Yani you have to be drunk to gather courage to face your kid in your own house?

Unataka tuone jamaa kwa evening news?

Even the way you are typing shows you have a serious problem. You are the problem in that house. Get your shit together and act like a real head of your house!

Start of the problem. You made him think he can get whatever you wants as opposed to him earning whatever he has through hard work. This should be a present after achieving a certain level of performance and discipline and after having finished reading a book or two (or whatever level of performance you two agree)

Him inviting other kids to your house often and frequently for stays longer that necessary should be frowned upon. Teach him to see value in his privacy.

Drinking openly in front of your son is never the best idea.

@mchipy for the sake of your son having a brighter future uzia Mimi hio PS4 18k saa hii tumalizane.

Hiyo age mtoi hucopy kile wanaona wengine wakifanya, especially parents or other grown-ups. Keep that in mind and be doing things that are beneficial to the child in the real world. Hakuna hiyo shit ya ‘ujanja’ and so on.

Swap the ps4 for a classic gameboy(colorless) and the ridicule he will get will surely have a ripple effect. Ama mpatie bano if classic game boy is hard to find.

Issue is am the nilimfunzaa na ps2 tukiwaaa gta II n saai am much held up sina iyo time ya ps… it was back then akiwa 6, kila mtu huu mess once in a while…

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Jibu yangu

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coz you are a fucking bachelor or you r just a peasant father who pregnated a hoe in pub who can’t even afford to buy any toy for his son… taka taka ya sonko

coz you are a fucking bachelor or you r just a peasant father who pregnated a hoe in pub who can’t even afford to buy any toy for his son… taka taka ya sonko

:D:D:D:D…weuh! The truth hurts you have just exposed yourself as shitty, shitty parent…
I feel sorry for your son what did he do deserve you as parent!

Look at your son and see yourself.Then ask yourself,how can I help myself

That is a stage in development. Your son is normal. Very normal. Ni kahii. What do you expect? Boys that age move in packs like wolves. They will squeal like pigs when they find theselves in a death trap during a game. We have sons who game, and in class/school they are still boss. Do not deny him the games but buy him a gaming computer intead. That way he will become familiar with operating systems, learn how to type in the process, install software, learn to work with different softwares…word processors/ excel/browsers/ graphics softwares like photoshop CS/ etc. In gaming he will learn how to mode. He will learn different specs and how to maintain his own computer. I despise a play station in the hands of a kid. DO NOT GIVE HIM INTERNET.

Making noise in the house cannot be avoided.

But he should know not to make noise when you are asleep. It is an innocent crime. But children have a natural fear for their parents sijui kama umekosea mahali. If your son’s friends come in on Sunday to find you asleep, and are aware that you are asleep, I would expect your son to tell them to find something else to do, or pick a bike and herd them out to go bike riding or something. My background nililelewa kwamba it is taboo to wake your father from sleep unless for a serious, very serious matter. He is growing up and should learn this right now. Teach him gently. Let him teach his crew too.

So back in my heydays, nilikuwa naskia watoto wanachapwa shule and it was shocking me. The only thing is I felf like I was getting the worst. Nilikuwa Agakhan in the 90’s and Mr. Scott used to give us psychological punishment. Trust me akili inateseka kushinda mwili. Beatting doesnt help. Sanctions boss. The pain of being denied something you have is painful than any beating. SO weka sanctions kwako. alafu venye @thesavage amesema hapo. It should be an unwritten rule that daddy haamshwi. When my boy comes over from her mom for holidays anajua hio. Anambia friends wake msipige kelele juu daddy analala. Juu hio time tunakuwa tuu wawili kwa hao na sileti makunguru huko… nacheza away matches. The mother is always happy kuskia hakuna mtu huko.
Wanajua nikiskia kelele kila mtu inje! And that will interfere with their PC games.